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"Just because a gal has a guy (or hubby) why should you expect him to share the cost. Hubby can have all the fun with the wife without you. This is the real world; not another porn show! "

If this statement is true than the wife should be paying , after all she is the one who wants to have sex with a stranger. In my personal opinion a couple "seeking" a 3rd male or female should bare in mind that this is their fantasy/desire and therefore they should either foot the bill or split costs. You aren't getting less than they are, you aren't doing them some "favor" by inviting them access to your partner. In fact quite the opposite would seem to be true if you wanted to look at it objectively. A single person it would seem is YOUR fantasy, if you expect them to pay, be grateful and bend over and kiss your ass I'd say that's pretty twisted thinking. I'm not prostituting myself for a 85.00 room and Mr Sav isn't going to auction me off to the highest bidder. I get the fact that there are many men who will gladly pay, the fact that you expect it or it is a prerequisite to whom you play with is rather degrading if you ask me.

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I'm not sure if you realize what your post came across as. I am very turned off after reading your post, I would have to re-evaluate my relationship with my husband if he thought along the same line as you appear to be thinking.

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If we're out on the town, vacation, etc and have a room, then the SM doesn't have to pay. If we are somewhere and invite a SM, then we pay. If the SM makes the invitation; he pays. It just depends on how's hosting. It's about being polite. Guys if you pick up a gal somewhere, do you expect her to pay; do you expect to get laid? Just because a gal has a guy (or hubby) why should you expect him to share the cost. Hubby can have all the fun with the wife without you. This is the real world; not another porn show!

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mrs like2.....id sure take you anyway i could get you and i would gladly pay for the room :)

Rockport MA
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They should at least bring some guberment cheese...

Yuk Yuk :)

Sanford NC
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I agree, we never enter a house empty handed.

Allenhurst NJ
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You hit it on the nose Andy. We treat all of our friends equally when it comes to hospitality. If someone hosts, we bring a token of appreciation. It's just polite.

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For us it does not manner if it is a single male or female. We were going out anyways so why would we expect the sm or sf to pay the cost of our room. In regards to drinks we will pay for some but not necessary for all. For us this is only polite.

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No "ifs" about how hot your Mrs. is so yeah, I'll have to agree with you on that one.

Poland OH
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who you kidding NaN, if she was HOT you would take it anyway it was offered!

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