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"Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks"

"who said regional" ?

Excuse me the words "in this area" and "my corner" of the lifestyle" sound regional to me. Self respect? Respect of the relationship? What the hell? Let's make this simple for you. I am a grown women and if I so chose to play with anyone for my own pleasure I am more than happy to share costs.My expectation is that we all have fun . This isn't a "date" he and I are not having a relationship , he isn't "courting me" . It's sex pure and simple for the pleasure of us ALL. As for supply and demand that is the most sickening reason I can think of to expect men to pay, the only thing worse would be the man who's attitude is you get to fuck my wife and are going to pay for it. That screams insecurity to me and/or a man who doesn't really enjoy his wife playing with single men but tolerates and therefore will make damn sure it doesn't cost him a penny. You're right I will "never get it" Just because you can get away with something (supply and demand) doesn't make it right.

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Here is what Mrs SAV fails to see...for whatever reason....All due respect to you single guys out there; the best looking, best conditioned, best endowed, most respectful, courteous, one raise your hand. Again, all due respect, I can put an add in Craig's list and have 50 of you assembled by 10PM this evening...no problem, and all any of them need to do is shower, pop a Viagra, put on jeans and a tee shirt and show up. The couple on the other hand usually has babysitting issues, household matters to tend to, and twice the obligations before they even get out the door, and double the expense for dinner, a movie, etc. Not to mention, The couple has forged a bond, explored the lifestyle, had trial and error, talked and talked the boundaries and personal rules to death. They risk everything based on mutual respect and trust. The single guy.... put a profile on a web site. You either have self respect and respect for your relationship, understand how classy civilized people do things, or you don't

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Who said regional? Only you not me There are smart, classy and cool people all over the country, it's not a regional issue. Having said that, I have no doubt "none of your friends" meet the criteria as those of us who get it. Apart from being civilized, it also has a lot to do with self respect and respect for your relationship. Again, some of us get it, some of you don't.

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Again not surprising.....birds of a feather flock together as they say. Funny we've talked about it too . Not one of my LS female friends would ever allow this and not one of my male LS friends objects to pay so his wife can have a good time. It isn't a regional thing, I've lived all over the US and have met swinging all over the place.

Class my friend, something you'll seemingly never have.

Mrs Sav

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Shelly...if someone pisses you off, you can always leave. Realize it of not, you have more control in that scenario

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Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks and the response was universally "Of course the guy pays the first time", followed by a rundown of all the reasons that have been mentioned, from common courtesy to respect for the sanctity of the couples relationship to simple supply and demand.

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Gee Mrs Sav...i guess in my circles a gentleman not insisting on picking up a tab is demanding the couple do so...Again, my anylogy was based on your logic, not mine...but then again I guess some circles are more polite, and in tune with civil and classy behavior than others

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The difference is no one demand or expected us to pick up the tab. I'm not surprised you are incapable of seeing the difference.

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BTW...you folks who say if you insist the single male picks up the cost of the room that is "selling the wife" of the couple...by your own logic..if you pick up the tab, how is that guy any different from a guy you chose off a list of pics on a male escort site? Jus sayin

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We state what we prefer they host or pay the room in the profile and first email response.. If anyone has a problem with it, they can move to the next profile. Nothing wrong with asking someone to pay (esp to fuck her). I am sharing her. It costs them less to do this vs going on match or okc wining and dining and not getting laid. We are up front from the beginning! Again, if the single men have a problem with it find another couple who will pay the room!

all4mhb...Bravo and Bingo!

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