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I pointed out my area because it should go without saying, it is that with which I am most familiar. if you have a regional inferiority complex Ms SAV, that is your cross to bear, not mine. Having said that, being in the business I am in i get out to events, parties, cons and lifestyle oriented activities all over the country, and again, in my circles, this discussion would not be unlike discussing if it were ok to fart in a hot tub, those of us who "get it" would never question the single gentlemen s obligation to pay non the first meeting. As for the rest of your rant, I get that too, I have heard it all before, and again, anyone can defend anything, and if that is what works for you, fine, just know that it nis not reflective of one who respects either yourself or your relationship. Frankly, you would do better to call an escort service, because if these guys your husband is pimping you to as a tribute to "Brohood" for their amusement (never looked at it that way either did ya Punkin?) are not offering to pay, the male escort is clearly a classier guy. P.S. Remember, it was you and yours who brought up the "selling your partner" subject, I am just taking your concept to it's logical conclusion.

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Yeah those single guys, they have no life, no responsibility and no self respect....just a bunch of human dildos to be used, taken advantage of ( financially) and dehumanized all for the honor of having sex with your wife.

Excuse me while I throw up.

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"Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks"

"who said regional" ?

Excuse me the words "in this area" and "my corner" of the lifestyle" sound regional to me. Self respect? Respect of the relationship? What the hell? Let's make this simple for you. I am a grown women and if I so chose to play with anyone for my own pleasure I am more than happy to share costs.My expectation is that we all have fun . This isn't a "date" he and I are not having a relationship , he isn't "courting me" . It's sex pure and simple for the pleasure of us ALL. As for supply and demand that is the most sickening reason I can think of to expect men to pay, the only thing worse would be the man who's attitude is you get to fuck my wife and are going to pay for it. That screams insecurity to me and/or a man who doesn't really enjoy his wife playing with single men but tolerates and therefore will make damn sure it doesn't cost him a penny. You're right I will "never get it" Just because you can get away with something (supply and demand) doesn't make it right.

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Here is what Mrs SAV fails to see...for whatever reason....All due respect to you single guys out there; the best looking, best conditioned, best endowed, most respectful, courteous, one raise your hand. Again, all due respect, I can put an add in Craig's list and have 50 of you assembled by 10PM this evening...no problem, and all any of them need to do is shower, pop a Viagra, put on jeans and a tee shirt and show up. The couple on the other hand usually has babysitting issues, household matters to tend to, and twice the obligations before they even get out the door, and double the expense for dinner, a movie, etc. Not to mention, The couple has forged a bond, explored the lifestyle, had trial and error, talked and talked the boundaries and personal rules to death. They risk everything based on mutual respect and trust. The single guy.... put a profile on a web site. You either have self respect and respect for your relationship, understand how classy civilized people do things, or you don't

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Who said regional? Only you not me There are smart, classy and cool people all over the country, it's not a regional issue. Having said that, I have no doubt "none of your friends" meet the criteria as those of us who get it. Apart from being civilized, it also has a lot to do with self respect and respect for your relationship. Again, some of us get it, some of you don't.

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Again not surprising.....birds of a feather flock together as they say. Funny we've talked about it too . Not one of my LS female friends would ever allow this and not one of my male LS friends objects to pay so his wife can have a good time. It isn't a regional thing, I've lived all over the US and have met swinging all over the place.

Class my friend, something you'll seemingly never have.

Mrs Sav

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Shelly...if someone pisses you off, you can always leave. Realize it of not, you have more control in that scenario

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Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks and the response was universally "Of course the guy pays the first time", followed by a rundown of all the reasons that have been mentioned, from common courtesy to respect for the sanctity of the couples relationship to simple supply and demand.

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Gee Mrs Sav...i guess in my circles a gentleman not insisting on picking up a tab is demanding the couple do so...Again, my anylogy was based on your logic, not mine...but then again I guess some circles are more polite, and in tune with civil and classy behavior than others

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The difference is no one demand or expected us to pick up the tab. I'm not surprised you are incapable of seeing the difference.

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