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Who said regional? Only you not me There are smart, classy and cool people all over the country, it's not a regional issue. Having said that, I have no doubt "none of your friends" meet the criteria as those of us who get it. Apart from being civilized, it also has a lot to do with self respect and respect for your relationship. Again, some of us get it, some of you don't.

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Again not surprising.....birds of a feather flock together as they say. Funny we've talked about it too . Not one of my LS female friends would ever allow this and not one of my male LS friends objects to pay so his wife can have a good time. It isn't a regional thing, I've lived all over the US and have met swinging all over the place.

Class my friend, something you'll seemingly never have.

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Shelly...if someone pisses you off, you can always leave. Realize it of not, you have more control in that scenario

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Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks and the response was universally "Of course the guy pays the first time", followed by a rundown of all the reasons that have been mentioned, from common courtesy to respect for the sanctity of the couples relationship to simple supply and demand.

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Gee Mrs Sav...i guess in my circles a gentleman not insisting on picking up a tab is demanding the couple do so...Again, my anylogy was based on your logic, not mine...but then again I guess some circles are more polite, and in tune with civil and classy behavior than others

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The difference is no one demand or expected us to pick up the tab. I'm not surprised you are incapable of seeing the difference.

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BTW...you folks who say if you insist the single male picks up the cost of the room that is "selling the wife" of the couple...by your own logic..if you pick up the tab, how is that guy any different from a guy you chose off a list of pics on a male escort site? Jus sayin

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We state what we prefer they host or pay the room in the profile and first email response.. If anyone has a problem with it, they can move to the next profile. Nothing wrong with asking someone to pay (esp to fuck her). I am sharing her. It costs them less to do this vs going on match or okc wining and dining and not getting laid. We are up front from the beginning! Again, if the single men have a problem with it find another couple who will pay the room!

all4mhb...Bravo and Bingo!

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There have been times I have paid. There have been times the couple has paid.

It's one thing for someone to offer to pay. It is quite another to "expect" someone to pay.

Saying someone "should pay" BECAUSE they are enjoying your wife is bullshit. She is enjoying him too.

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