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I am fully aware that I can exercise control by being able to leave anywhere I may be at any time I choose to. Trust me, as a Single Female on here for a couple of years, and in some vanilla settings too, I've freely exercised my right to leave a date, a club, a party or a relationship that made me feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

Perhaps it's sadistic, but I think I would derive great satisfaction from evicting a playmate that turned rude and obnoxious from my hotel room, particularly if I threw them out naked:)


 
 
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SB311.....there is no "right or wrong"...except when someone claims someone else's preference and point of view is tad-amount to prostitution. That is all at once ridiculous and offensive and lowbrow. My view is based on both the way I was raised and taught about the way a man should behave from and ethical point of view, and simple supply and demand from a practical point of view. What some people miss in mine and others opinion is if a couple DECLINES to have the single gentlemen pay, that is fine, but if the single gentlemen fails to offer, that should be a HUGE red flag. In my world, there is an obligatory tug of war between the men with dining checks, bar bills and yes, hotel check ins...again...just the way I was raised.

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apologize if this is in the wrong thread- but it seems an appropriate place and I have missed quite a few posts it seems. Hopefully I won't get skewered. Regarding a room(s) for a gang bang/group event. I don't know how the GBE's do it, but in our group, usually 2 adjoining rooms are used, one area for people to enter and exit/take a break/water and one room designated for the lady and play. The couple has usually pre-paid for the rooms, so it's a done deal. Typically though, the gentleman participating in the function usually make a small contribution toward the costs of the room and bring their favorite condoms that the lady is not allergic to.

True, the couple or lady is getting "their fantasy item" taken care of, but the gentlemen who sign up and participate in a gangbang do not simply sign up for the altruistic purpose of granting a couple's or lady's fantasies. If a gentleman can perform in a group setting and is participating in an event organized properly, they reap the benefits of drama-free NSA sex. The gentlemen voluntarily participate and VOLUNTARILY share in the costs of the room and everybody has fun and a good time. Nobody demands that they share in the cost of anything.

That's the whole point of swinging to my way of thinking and what I signed up for-- fun and NSA sex, it's an unexpected bonus if you find anything else like some friends along the way. If a potential playmate were to make 'who pays for the room' a point of contention, then they would not be somebody I'm interested in playing with and it makes no difference to if they are a Unicorn, TopNotch SM or Ken&Barbie the megacouple.


 
 
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LOL....please tell your your're joking Precious, and that you DO know "CON" means Convention? Actually, never-mind.....i'm not sure you did I have no idea what your hubby has in mind,like I said, you raised the specter of prostitution, I was just slumming it down at your level. What's wrong, you can dish it out but can't take it? Like I also said, whatever works for you is fine with me, I am just pointing not it's implications, trust me, I never expected you to get it. As for me, please don't embarrass yourself sunshine, a person of your station in life has no way of knowing anything about a person of my stature in general, or least of all about me in particular. I run 4 clubs, have a group membership on this site alone of over 1600 people, and a web site that gets 15,000 hits a month, and can go anywhere in the US and know lifestyle people. You're a bleached blond with an "ok" body who is a 7.5 who fancies herself a 10 with a profile on SLS who lives in Alabama...like I said...i never expected you to get it. I fully understand your view on this, there was no reason for you to try to attack me without provocation to make your point. I actually thought you had me blocked, and that was fine by me. (Not to worry, I am not one to run to the Mods and complain) Again, just know your view is not a view shared by people in "other" circles....best of luck

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I'm not your pumkin nor you're sweetie and it is extremely clear to me that you have zero respect for women and even less of single men. As to Mr Sav pimping me out get a clue idiot, as a grown women I decide who, where , if and when I will play with anyone. Mr Sav doesn't set up dates for me .

I find the fact you used the word "con" in your previous post that only thing you've said that has made the slightest bit of sense.

Happy Conning ,

My mother always told me you can't fix stupid and she was right. I suppose the fact that a man is willing to pay to have sex with your /or someone else's wife should extremely flattering to you, personally I have more self worth than that. My pleasures come with no expectation of compensation. I'd rather give it away then sell myself cheap and keep my pride and self respect in tact. Mrs Sav

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And for the record.... "You get to fuck my wife so you are gonna pay for it" ? NO ONE said anything close to that...except Mrs SAV

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just a bunch of human dildos to be used, taken advantage of? Ummm....no sweetie, you have that completely inverted. A guy who gets a free room as if he weren't one of a million just like him is neither being used, or taken advantage of

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I pointed out my area because it should go without saying, it is that with which I am most familiar. if you have a regional inferiority complex Ms SAV, that is your cross to bear, not mine. Having said that, being in the business I am in i get out to events, parties, cons and lifestyle oriented activities all over the country, and again, in my circles, this discussion would not be unlike discussing if it were ok to fart in a hot tub, those of us who "get it" would never question the single gentlemen s obligation to pay non the first meeting. As for the rest of your rant, I get that too, I have heard it all before, and again, anyone can defend anything, and if that is what works for you, fine, just know that it nis not reflective of one who respects either yourself or your relationship. Frankly, you would do better to call an escort service, because if these guys your husband is pimping you to as a tribute to "Brohood" for their amusement (never looked at it that way either did ya Punkin?) are not offering to pay, the male escort is clearly a classier guy. P.S. Remember, it was you and yours who brought up the "selling your partner" subject, I am just taking your concept to it's logical conclusion.

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Yeah those single guys, they have no life, no responsibility and no self respect....just a bunch of human dildos to be used, taken advantage of ( financially) and dehumanized all for the honor of having sex with your wife.

Excuse me while I throw up.

Mrs Sav

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"Seriously....and i'm not being snarkey, in this area and in my corner of the lifestyle, this entire question is rhetorical...I have run it past some folks"

"who said regional" ?

Excuse me the words "in this area" and "my corner" of the lifestyle" sound regional to me. Self respect? Respect of the relationship? What the hell? Let's make this simple for you. I am a grown women and if I so chose to play with anyone for my own pleasure I am more than happy to share costs.My expectation is that we all have fun . This isn't a "date" he and I are not having a relationship , he isn't "courting me" . It's sex pure and simple for the pleasure of us ALL. As for supply and demand that is the most sickening reason I can think of to expect men to pay, the only thing worse would be the man who's attitude is you get to fuck my wife and are going to pay for it. That screams insecurity to me and/or a man who doesn't really enjoy his wife playing with single men but tolerates and therefore will make damn sure it doesn't cost him a penny. You're right I will "never get it" Just because you can get away with something (supply and demand) doesn't make it right.

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