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I have and have no problem doing so, but this is after we have met and come to the conclusion we want a night of sex.

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Well said SWG. Whatever works for those involved is all that really matters. The longer I am around this LS the more I see a huge variety in how people enjoy it and none of it is "wrong" if it works for them and those who want to play with them.

I've stated my opinion on the OP before and the short answer is, if the couple is local or willing to travel to me, I host at my home. If I am traveling to them with plans to spend the night, I pay for the room since I'll be staying the night regardless of the outcome. If a couple contacted me and insisted I pay for the room in order have the privilege of fucking the wife, I would likely pass as it would feel demeaning to me and to her.

Unless it were an "escort" fantasy and she was smoking hot.

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maritimers..when it comes to a person you are about to allow into you sexual relationship, not to mention locking yourself in a hotel room with and there be NO record of his being there should YOU choose to put the room under your credit card and info...being judgmental is highly under rated (The safety factor in this discussion is often ignored, which is why I raised in now)

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A friend of mine was telling me a story about someone she encountered that was rude in so many different ways she couldn't list them all. She was really frustrated with the person and wanted to yell and scream and tell the person off. However, she didn't, she held back and refused to go to this person's level.

She said, "Rudeness is an unwanted gift that keeps giving".

I looked at her with great admiration and thought how true. I remember that saying so many times when I have a choice to be nice or be rude.

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"I am not attracted to guys who cannot pay for a room first round."

Some might call this being judgmental, others might call it using good judgment.

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all4mhb ...Being attacked for an opinion is not universal here, you will find that generally coming from a few people who clearly have some deep seeded issues, not to mention spending a LOT more time on swinger sites than actually swinging, if indeed some of them actually swing at all. Like I said, you don't have to defend yourself to anyone, least of all them. It's actually symbiotic in these cases....the clueless lowbrow deadbeat who doesn't offer to pay the bills on the first meeting, and the classless woman with so little self esteem and respect for her relationship she treats the single males in the lifestyle like selections on a male escort service website, and their husbands/boyfriends like a fool to pay the tab. They claim you are a prostitute and I am a pimp? Who's worse? The prostitute, the pimp, or the desperate fools who seeks them out? Stick to your guns, some of us get it, some of them don't

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You were not attacked. You read the opinions of others on the topic of who should pay for the room. Why it is okay for you to express that you want the room to be picked up by the dood that just finished tapping your vagina, but for others to express that such an act in their worldview is the equivalent to prostitution not be okay to express?

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"We prefer not to mingle or have guys buy her dinner. She likes to fuck. "

I'd say that is enormously different than a "date" . If you don't like the opinion of others or can't handle being disagreed with I'd suggest you not inquire for advice nor opinions on a public forum. I have zero issue with the fact that you disagree with me, if you feel attacked I'd say to toughen up. Both you and your husband have made it clear what you seek,in several postings, in essence a single guy to arrive, drop his pants and fuck you...to each their own. When it is brought to a public forum though you best be prepared to hear opinions that disagree with your own. I respect your right to stand firm in your opinions and I will do the same...that's what makes the world unique. I'm not going to with hold my opinion simply because it doesn't match the OP's or anyone else who posts. BTW I disagree completely we're all going to hell for being swingers.

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We always get the room in a nice hotel. This way when we are done, we dont have to leave, we can stay the night and have fun. I dont want to feel like we owe anybody anything. Same goes for dinner and drinks, we always pay, just makes it easier

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Honey, honey, but he is SO hot, and like, I really really want him, please honey, he doesn't get paid till next Friday, please honey, get out the debit card before he gets away... Don't "deprive me of the pleasure" of fucking this deadbeat...pleeeeease honey?"

"But babe, there are like 47,000 guys on swing sites looking to play tonite"

"Noooo..I want HIM Honey..please please please can we pay his way tonite..pleeeease????"

"Well, can he at least pitch in, I mean after all......."

"How dare you!!!! What do you think I am, a Prostitute? I want him damn it!"

Excuse me, I just threw up in my mouth a little bit

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