Who pays for room: Swingers Discussion 20524710139

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User Details are only visible to members.	I blocked you Mrs Sav, for this very reason, because you have an ax to grind with me and you are incapable of addressing me without unprovoked insult and hostility....that's your problem not mine, and it is not me who runs to the Mods any time their itty bitty feeeeeelings get hurt, and we both know what I mean. (Don't we?) Frankly I have no idea how you became unblocked, and in the beginning, I don't recall ever addressing YOU directly... but in any case, you really should grow up and get over it. Anyway... If you are "well informed" about my events, than you would know we are the premier club in the area (about 6 million people and 11 clubs) in terms of attendance and rep, and even our friendly and not so friendly competitors don't deny that, but on the list of people who I have to talk myself or my business up to, you are low on the list. I am however, sure that at that club house in Alabama behind the feed store where $25 and a bowl of potato salad gets you in, they are highly impressed with your 116 pics, at my venues Honey, you would be just another girl, so spare me the sanctimonious nonsense please. You don't think guys should have to be the ones to pay when they get with you and hubby, I get it... fine, more power to you. Again, just know many disagree with you, and because we do that should not induce the ridiculous delusion that you are "better" than us...quite the contrary...like I said...best of luck
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Whoever makes the invitation pays for the room. Since we invite the men, we pay. If we accepted invitations from men, we'd expect them to pay. It's just like vanilla things - we don't ask people out to dinner and then expect them to pay.
Westerly RI			Username hidden (83 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for answering my question. I chose to not be kept by any man but if that's what works for you more power to you. A gift is no longer a gift if it is demanded or expected. I want nothing from any man he feels obligated to provide for me or give me. Mr Sav takes care of me not because I demand it but because he loves me and wants to , he also pays for whatever pleasures I desire willingly and happily not because he is obligated to and he sure doesn't expect anyone to pay so that I might have that pleasure which I seek. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4110 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We play on attractiveness and we will not deal deal if he will not pay for room or provide his home! So what!
Oaks PA			Username hidden (15 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So am I a prostitute because I made it clear to my man I expect a man to take care of me? Pay my bills and everything as soon as we became an item? He could have said no but he agreed as a grown man. If you say so, I guess I am. So is he allowing me to dehumanize him? -J
Oaks PA			Username hidden (15 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ALL4" What is the difference is we ask a guy to get a room the first time around or if you liked tall surfer types and only that! " The difference is I base who I play with on attraction not on their willingness to pay. The question of who will pay what is distasteful and plays absolutely no role in my level of attraction or desire to play with someone. I get you don't want to bond and socialize with men and have no problem with that at all but that has absolutely nothing to do with insisting that they pay. What if you found an attractive gentlemen who for whatever reason simply could not afford to pay for the entire room? Do you simply cross him off the list. What of you men who insist? What if the Mrs finds herself desirous of the man who can pay ? Will you deny her the pleasure simply because if "he gets to fuck my wife" he damn well better pay for the room? Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4110 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"You're a bleached blond with an "ok" body who is a 7.5 who fancies herself a 10 with a profile on SLS who lives in Alabama...like I said...i never expected you to get it." Let me point out it was you who blocked me several months ago I simply unblocked you immediately when I noticed it. It wasn't until just this week you unblocked me. I suppose it was because most people here either have you blocked or simply ignore you and you'd run out of people who'd actually converse with you. The fact that you are not smart enough to know the difference between "offering" to pay and demanding payment is not something I can correct. Small minds generally lack common sense. I don't really give a rats ass how many parties you host it says absolutely nothing about your ethics nor does it in fact actually mean you swing. All it really means is you provide a venue for others to party .Just like owning a restaurant doesn't mean you can cook. I've very much enjoyed your macho man stance , I suppose a man like you must "demand" respect when it isn't given freely. On another note trust I am well informed about your parties and from what I hear I am thankful I no longer live in your area. If your snide reference of my residing in AL was meant to demean or the people of the south trust it shows shows your ignorance . Only a small man insults others in an attempt to look bigger. On a side note , not that it matters I happen to a natural born blonde . Your entire opinion of my looks is meaningless and by the very fact that you'd attack me tells everyone more about you than any other garbage you'd spewed to date. I'm glad I could be of service making you the fool. As for your "stature " your photo speaks for itself which up until now I was respectful enough to mention. Please do be sure to run to the Mod claiming I attacked you which I clearly did not . Be sure to block me again any time. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4110 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Julya...again....well said
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am fully aware that I can exercise control by being able to leave anywhere I may be at any time I choose to. Trust me, as a Single Female on here for a couple of years, and in some vanilla settings too, I've freely exercised my right to leave a date, a club, a party or a relationship that made me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Perhaps it's sadistic, but I think I would derive great satisfaction from evicting a playmate that turned rude and obnoxious from my hotel room, particularly if I threw them out naked:)
Canton MS			Username hidden (2765 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SB311.....there is no "right or wrong"...except when someone claims someone else's preference and point of view is tad-amount to prostitution. That is all at once ridiculous and offensive and lowbrow. My view is based on both the way I was raised and taught about the way a man should behave from and ethical point of view, and simple supply and demand from a practical point of view. What some people miss in mine and others opinion is if a couple DECLINES to have the single gentlemen pay, that is fine, but if the single gentlemen fails to offer, that should be a HUGE red flag. In my world, there is an obligatory tug of war between the men with dining checks, bar bills and yes, hotel check ins...again...just the way I was raised.
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2627 post)

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