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Way to much emphasis is placed on money..we normally have our own room if we are not playing in a club ..however it is just simple communication before meeting up.. all the single guy has to ask is ( If we all decide to play do yall have a room established or would yall like me to supply one.) That way who pays for the room won't be a issue after meeting...People tend to forget the more communication the better..

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This whole thing about who pays for what is absolutely ridiculous. Everybody should pay for themselves. It's not about who gets what out if the deal. It's about tact, class and upbringing. Monetary expectations, that others pay for you because you have a vagina are repulsive.

Offering, buying a drink or two for someone else is normal. Expecting that others pay for you is an indication of low class, lack of tact and moochiness. When you are paid for, you owe the one who paid your way, no matter how much you'd like to convince others and mostly yourself that it's not so.

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This whole thing about who pays for what is absolutely ridiculous. Everybody should pay for themselves. It's not about who gets what out if the deal. It's about tact, class Nd upbringing. Monetary expectations, that others pay for you because you have a vagina are repulsive.

Offering, buying a drink or two for someone else is normal. Expecting that others pay for you is an indication of low class, lack of tact and miochiness.

Can't afford it? Cheap? Stay home.

Rumson NJ
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Thank you PartyPerks847...much appreciated!

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JR14009 ...U R a stand up guy

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I have read this post for awhile and if I don't host or go to a couples place then I always pay for the room. Some may not agree with this but I don't have a problem paying, it seems like the right thing to do. If the couple offers to split the cost that is a nice gesture, but I always turn it down and thank them for it.

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fancy, it's not complicated, it's really very simple.

The single gentleman should vigerously offer to pay the majority of the costs for the first meeting because; 1. Simple supply and demand 2. He has less expenses 3. It is done out of respect for the couple 4.It's the classy thing to do

Couples should expect the single gentlemen to vigorously offer to pay the majority of the costs for the first meeting because; 1.If a guy lacks the moxie and class to offer, he is a classless buffoon who you really don't want in your life to begin with 2. If the room is in his name, you know he has the where with all to at least have a credit card and didn't just get released from prison or jumped off a freight car (if that doesnt matter, that's pathetic) 3. The room in his name is a security and safety issue if things go sour 4. It's the classy thing to do

All this talk about people being "prostitutes" and sanctimonious BS about "being deprived of pleasure" is retraded

Rosemont IL
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I would be happy to join him in attempting to "decipher" you m'lady.

;^D

Youngstown OH
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Nic, you would definitely be an exception to my no SM rule. And I am sorry that I wasn't clear before. You should see the trouble Mr. Fancy has trying to figure me out everyday.

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Yeah, double standard is a more accurate description but I thought you were agreeing that the male should pay and the female shouldn't and then your explanation to explain each side would have been a contradiction.

Now that is out of the way, why not come to Youngstown and I'll host so we won't have to worry about anyone paying for anything?

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