Who pays for room: Swingers Discussion 20524710121

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User Details are only visible to members.	"We prefer not to mingle or have guys buy her dinner. She likes to fuck. " I'd say that is enormously different than a "date" . If you don't like the opinion of others or can't handle being disagreed with I'd suggest you not inquire for advice nor opinions on a public forum. I have zero issue with the fact that you disagree with me, if you feel attacked I'd say to toughen up. Both you and your husband have made it clear what you seek,in several postings, in essence a single guy to arrive, drop his pants and fuck you...to each their own. When it is brought to a public forum though you best be prepared to hear opinions that disagree with your own. I respect your right to stand firm in your opinions and I will do the same...that's what makes the world unique. I'm not going to with hold my opinion simply because it doesn't match the OP's or anyone else who posts. BTW I disagree completely we're all going to hell for being swingers. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4088 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We always get the room in a nice hotel. This way when we are done, we dont have to leave, we can stay the night and have fun. I dont want to feel like we owe anybody anything. Same goes for dinner and drinks, we always pay, just makes it easier
Chambersburg PA			Username hidden (850 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sweetart, no difference if you date a guy and he pays for dinner and drinks and bangs you. He's paying one way or another in that case. A prostitute takes cash for sex. me simply asking a guy to cover thr room first time around does not make me a prostitute IMO and most would agree. We chimed in on our opinion and preferences and I'm attacked on a forum (lol) for talking about my likes and preferences. So is woman out of line because she won't date a guy who works at convenient store? Or a man won't date a woman unless she's shapely and has DDs? I am not attracted to guys who cannot pay for a room first round. I'm done here? I'm losing brain cells here from people judging when they should look in the mirror. We are all going to hell here for swinging and having sex with people other than out husbands or wives.
Oaks PA			Username hidden (15 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Honey, honey, but he is SO hot, and like, I really really want him, please honey, he doesn't get paid till next Friday, please honey, get out the debit card before he gets away... Don't "deprive me of the pleasure" of fucking this deadbeat...pleeeeease honey?" "But babe, there are like 47,000 guys on swing sites looking to play tonite" "Noooo..I want HIM Honey..please please please can we pay his way tonite..pleeeease????" "Well, can he at least pitch in, I mean after all......." "How dare you!!!! What do you think I am, a Prostitute? I want him damn it!" Excuse me, I just threw up in my mouth a little bit
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2597 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sophia, I am sorry that happened, in my opinion it was very rude. I agree if you can't afford it, you simply stay home. In the future , if your money is budgeted (whose isn't) I suggest you get there a bit early and ask the waitress for separate checks. I don't like quibbling over who got what but I too do not like being taken advantage of. We're all here for fun, when it stops being fun or about fun it's time to take a step back. I am always willing to pay my fair share and expect others to follow suit. If I buy you a drink that's on me, if you insist I buy you a drink I think you lack class . I don't do anyone who think anyone owes them anything for the "pleasure" of their company. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4088 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just remember, anything PP says is usually wrong. If you find yourself agreeing with him most of the time, you are usually wrong.
Hunt Valley MD			Username hidden (3556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sophiasays69...you summarized perfectly 1/3 the reason I believe it is an obligation of the single gentlemen to at least OFFER (A part of my opinion Mrs SAV has selectively chosen to ignore) to pay and cover most if not all of the expenses. Quite simply, it costs a couple more to come out and play before the evening even begins The other two thirds being simple supply and demand, and having enough self respect for yourself and your relationship/marriage not to allow yourselves to be treated like clients at a male escort service because Johnny Wellhung or Tyrone Bebbedee make the female in the couple moist and the male in the couple can tolerate them
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2597 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mrs Sav, I have to agree with you completely. However, I think it goes deeper than that, if you can't afford to pay don't go out and play. This means, if you can't afford your own dinner, drinks, or at least half the room costs, then stay home. My hubby and I can't afford to pay for everyone's drinks, dinner, and the whole hotel room if we are paying for our own. We have college kids, bills, and other life things going on with our budget. We have to make sure our bills are taken care of then see how much we have in the budget to attend this party, club, meet and greet, and so on. If we can't afford it we pass on the opportunity. Even if someone says during that dinner, "hey we got this", we still have money in our wallets to pay. A recent experience of ours was a meet and greet with possible play. They initiated the contact, we emailed, we planned, and we agreed to this restaurant/dive bar they suggested. They ordered like crazy and then told us they had a coupon and both of our orders can go on it to save money. I was leery, but I figure, my phone has a calculator. They took the bill, saw how much everyone purchased and then proceeded to tell us in front of the waitress that we will split it 50/50. They purchased 2/3 of the total amount. No, I did not argue, put up a fuss, or anything. It wasn't worth it. The amount was not as important as the principle. We were interested until that moment. Any thought that we would do some playing that night or at any other time went away with the check. We then heard about their financial woes. Seriously, if you can't pay don't meet to play.
Hendersonville NC			Username hidden (571 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It is not so much that I object to a man paying for dinner, drinks or even a room. It is the demand/expectation that they pay that troubles me. I don't see sex as providing a "service" and therefore there are can be no demands of "compensation". I am even more annoyed when this rule(lack of better word) is explained with words like" "he is fucking my wife so of course he pays" . It is that rational that turns what should be a pleasurable experience for all involved into a bartering proposition. If a wife found a particular man attractive and he was unable to pay there would be no play, than attraction is no longer the first motive of sex , it takes a back seat to the mans ability to pay....I find that rather twisted. I also find it demeaning when a man takes this stance and claims no man will have access to wife unless he is willing to foot the bill. To me that is selfish and indicates he is not completely on board or comfortable sharing me with others. It reeks of "if he isn't getting his by golly someone is going to pay" ! Especially when these same men wouldn't bat an eye at shelling out money for dinner, drinks and a room for the chance at a single female. For the record I get some men think that is what gentlemen do but a gentlemen would also provide for his wives pleasure .Why is he no longer a gentleman to his own wife when hypothetically her having sex with other men is a shared fantasy? Anything else makes him sexist in my book with a view of his wife as a commodity not a partner. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4088 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	So am I a prostitute because I made it clear to my man I expect a man to take care of me? Pay my bills and everything as soon as we became an item? I think the correct term is sugerbaby.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2197 post)

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