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With us,IF there is an attraction and we decide to take it further, whether with a couple or a SM we ALWAYS pay half if not more. Same goes if we meet someone and there is a distance to travel, we meet half way.

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A man's choice of hotel, restaurant, etc, is primarily based on his standards & his preferences. The accommodations are not how I make my decision. Obviously, I'd prefer la Pavilion to Motel 6, & Brennan's to the Lucky Dog stand on Bourbon, but that's not the only reason I'd go on a date with a man. As with most women on here, the initial interest has to be peaked to move any further. Since I never go on a play date with a new sm with expectations, no one knows how it will end until the chemistry, or lack thereof, is discovered. That's where the metaphor about investments & dividends comes in. Sometimes a good investment (ie.date....total package!) gives you a very happy ending!

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Nicely said Nic.

Sophia

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Does everyone see the distinction between a gentleman offering to host and a couple (or husband) prostituting his wife?

A gentleman offering to treat a lady to a special evening is great fun for all. On the other hand, if the condition upon which a SM is permitted to play with the wife or couple is that he HAS to pay for the room because he is getting something in return, that's repugnant.

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going on a hot wife date tonight. SM has made the room reservations and setting up for champagne, raspberries & chocolate.

he insisted. his philosophy is that he's a gentleman. he's already proven that with how he has treated me on vanilla dates.

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As long as monetary "investments" are consistent with emotional investments -- politeness, compliments, respect, etc -- then money doesn't have to stand out as the devil in the details.

If an individual or couple is just self-centered, boorish, or otherwise an emotional burden, then it would indeed seem crass, if by their $50 they expect to get laid.

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"Hopefully, they will be appreciative and everyone will be rewarded handsomely when we adjourn to my hotel room afterwards."

Not trying to pick a fight, but that and other statements comparing women to a return on investment strike me as being a bit crass. Just my opinion.

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What is the hotwife date I keep seeing? I googled it and the only thing I see other than stories is hotwifepersonals which seems geared towards the whole cuckhold thing, which is definitely not us.

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you ladies are making me excited....so ill gladly pay for the room and the fine wine

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Awwwww!!!! {big smile!!!}

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