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I pay for the room if you want to split it that is fine, but I dont go back to someones room they already have, had a friend of mine that ended up finding out they had cameras even though she said no pics, cam, all that. I'm a safety girl.

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The question is, what is the difference between your husband being present or not in regards to who pays?

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Nic, I believe my husband was trying to convey that he feels that as the male and provider he should take care of the room with a SF and appreciates when a man does the same for me...and yes we do date others.

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Who is being disrespected, you or your wife?

If you are present (and presumably a participant) you split the bill but if only your wife is enjoying herself, then the SM pays it all?

I am not arguing who should pay but I am wondering what differentiates it in your mind. Do you think your wife is on a "date" with the SM or that she is somehow providing a service? THAT seems more disrespectful towards you IMHO.

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We have no problem splitting the cost in a mmf but my wife also sees men alone and if they do not pay for the room that is just disrespectful. When I see a woman alone I always pay

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We generally host at our house. When we do need to get a room, we've always been happy to split the cost, or pay for it ourselves.

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If we were getting a room with a guy for an mfm we're happy to split it with him. We're all there for the same reason and we're getting something out of it too.

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Like anything else is life is someone meets you half way how can that be a bad thing? I do think there would be a double standard when it comes to single males versus single females. Biggest difference is there seems to be a LOT more SM than SF.

Just our thoughts.

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Yourluvr: It’s all about the woman. As someone once said, “A happy woman is a happy man.”

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As a couple gearing up for our 1st 3sum (and with a female), I fully intend to pay for the room and drinks. I will let her buy a round if she offers, but I intend to take care of the rest.

yup, to me she is doing us a HUGE favor ;) No matter how many times we make her cum ;)

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