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TOPIC: Who pays for room
Created by: enigma322
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My wife does Hotwife date. It is expected that single guy pays for room. What about a MMF. Is it still expected that the single guy pays?

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Actually, it's customary for the invited SM or SF to pay the couple's mortgage for the month.

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For MFM hubby and I pay for the room. In fact even when I am meeting one on one with a single guy I pay for the room. With MFM, hubby and I will be playing again immediately after the FWB leaves so we want the room to be ours if at all possible. With single guys I don't want them to worry about the cost of the room. My taste in hotels is a bit pricy and my FWB's should not have to pay for an expensive hotel just because it is my preference. I prefer my FWB's not spend any money on me. I don't want their money - I want their time and attention (lots of attention).

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I'm an old-fashioned guy. I buy drinks and dinner, and pay for the room. If a date (woman or couple) offers to split the cost, I'll decline, but if pressed, suggest that they cover it next time.

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I pay for room , the reason should the couple or single lady have a sudden problem they can leave ,and will make good use of the room. just one of my simple rules.

Bradford Canada
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For us it depends. For first time meeting with a single male, we tell them to pay for the room. For first time couples we split the bill. And for the ladies, we treat. Once we know you and have played with you for awhile sometimes we treat and pay for the room. Whether it be a couple or single. That is just us.


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I can host! You can just come to my house! Lol.

Denham Springs LA
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"Fuck you in advance..." Aka, the preemptive Fuck You. Similar in strength to the Double Dog Dare and equally as effective.

As a SM, I will always pay or offer to pay. I'm not buying or assuming anything. I'm simply being gracious and polite. If I couldn't afford to pay, I'd stay home.

I've been in scenarios where the couple has insisted on paying and where fighting over a check or who's paying for a room would be considered impolite. In those situations, I take a deep breath and look for ways to show my gratitude to the female half of the couple later. I also assume that if things click, we'll get together again and I can pick up the next tab.

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"I look at it this way: If I were on a date with the lady, then I'd pick up the tab. "

Same here. So why would that not apply to asking a single guy as well?

We figure the one that does the asking can pay for the room. Couples excluded. If a single guy is trying to plan a date, they pay. If my wife approaches a single guy, we will pay. Although we always pay for single ladies, even if they ask-- yes it's a double standard, fuck you in advance for pointing it out. And with couples it can go anywhich way, from split to treating our friends or vice versa.

We don't get hung up on the value of the commodity aspect. We are willing to foot the bill if we are interested in having fun.

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Obama should pay for the room, as well as providing condoms, and a cell phone. I don't understand why this was not part of the affordable health care act.(sarcasm)

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Tigg,

I'll be up in December before Christmas. I'd like to request a king size bed and a bottle of Ripple.

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I don't have to put out, do I?

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