What do you think about CHEATING WOMEN: Swingers Discussion 203594

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TOPIC: What do you think about CHEATING WOMEN

Created by: Scandle Original Starting post for this thread:
This is meant as a companion thread to the Cheating Men posts, where a lot of people have clearly defined what they think of men who cheat and cheaters in general. Is your opinion different regarding women who cheat, or do you hold them to the same standard as men who stray?

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Cherrylog GA			Username hidden (16 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	cheating is cheating yup......causes more drama that is not needed
Rockport MA			Username hidden (5010 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cheating is cheating-enough said!
Joliet IL			Username hidden (36 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Get into a open relationship and you won't have to worry about cheating or being cheated on.
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nice analogy Mrs Sav! That's the main component Mr B and I focus on is honesty. And not "oh, I kissed that guy/girl while you were up at the bar!" But "hey! I would like to kiss them/see you kiss them!" We both love the conversations entering this lifestyle has sparked. It's about sharing the experience, respecting one another, and THEN getting and giving pleasure.
Millington TN			Username hidden (220 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ms. Sav. Very well said. I agree completely. If trust is broken in a relationship.............Especially for those in the lifestyle.........well the relationship is over. Of course, 90% of ALL relationships do not last and were never met to last a lifetime anyways. Finding a Lifetime Romance is a nice thought, but rarely happens. Just saying.
Bonneau SC			Username hidden (127 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SW I am sorry you're struggling but am glad you are stepping back a bit. Swinging is wonderful but it can also hurt a relationship if you're not on the same page. I'm the last one naked at any party and often the only women left dressed. That's just me. If I'm not seriously into playing, especially in a group setting I am not going to expose myself like a dinner buffet for the whole restaurant. I'm also simply not an exhibitionist. Thankfully Mr Sav are on the same page, I would have huge issues with him trying to talk me into things I'm not comfortable with and it would trouble me if I didn't want to do the things that made him happy (doesn't mean I'd do them...Im selfish like that lol) . If I offended you by my response I am sorry it truly wasn't my intend , I simply disagreed. Clearly there was more to the story and why you felt that way. I wish you happiness and balance. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, this is why we are taking a break. My husband wants me to expose myself and make passes at random vanilla men on the street. I am very uncomfortable with that. I enjoy going into the clubs. I would never be the first person exposed, but I do like to mingle and play along with activities like flashing for Mardi-Gras beads. I like hugging and kissing upon greeting. These activities bother my husband. He likes for me to give men blow-jobs. For me, this is foreplay. It gets me worked up to find mutual interest and then I want to fuck the men. Since I don't give my co-workers blow-jobs, this doesn't come up often in the vanilla world. I haven't cheated. I respect him and our relationship, but it is easier for me to just stay away from temptation.
Lubbock TX			Username hidden (366 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm not quite sure what you are saying but if it you are saying is the temptation to cheat or break rules a couple has decided on is easier for swingers I disagree. I believe the LS makes it easier to opening fulfill your desires and if you don't have enough respect for your partner to adhere to the rules established within swinging outside of a swing relationship you'd still be lacking respect for your partner. I would never do anything to break the trust and respect Mr Sav has for me. In fact I think because we swing that trust element is all the more important. I'm not going to cross any line that jeopardizes my relationship. You mention that to refrain from eating cookies one should avoid the bakery. Potential sex partners to cheat with are everywhere. At your work, the grocery store and in your neighbors back yard. Either you are the type of person who disrespects his/her partner of you aren't. You can not live in a bubble to be immune from temptation. I would rather say my partner has had every opportunity to cheat and chose not to than to say he doesn't have the opportunity and therefore would never cheat. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm going to stir the pot a little. Yes, cheating is cheating, however I am one who believes that the Lifestyle can make it difficult to stay faithful. Temptation is in our face and we are put into positions (giggle) that the vanilla world does not face. Rules about kissing, private conversations, and as one poster mentioned, cumming with another partner, etc. can slip in the heat of the moment. It's a little easier to avoid eating the cookies if they are put up in the cupboard. A visit to the bakery makes it difficult (no, not impossible) for even the most dedicated person to stay on a diet.
Lubbock TX			Username hidden (366 post)

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