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Threefun04's profile is correct and to the point. My wife has to like the guy and be interested in having sex with him. We enjoy threesomes and it is her decision on the guy she wants to invite into our threesome. We like a description and information of what he expects in a threesome. We are not into romantic involvements with couples or singles. We enjoy swinging just for the sexual excitement.

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I am not sure what other couples are looking for in a single guy, but this is what we are actually currently looking for: >We are looking for a guy who lives in the Lancaster, Palmdale, Quartz Hill, California area so that we can build a friendship and have a convenience of playing as much as possible. >I am looking for a guy of any race, >Between the age of 25 to 50 (50 who acts 30), Mature, but loves to get wild and crazy > Has a nice build, doesn't have to have abs of steel, but not a beer belly either, >Clean, >Cool, open minded, good sense of humor, someone who can carry a conversation, not crude or rude mouthed, >Dresses to impress when he needs to and also wears jeans and a (clean) T shirt when it's time to relax, > Long hair is a plus, but not a must. >I prefer thick cocks or cock heads. cut or uncut >I want a guy who is comfortable being naked around another straight guy with no homophobic hangups if they get to close while playing with me, >I like the man to be the aggressor in initiating sex both in public and private. >I don't like guys to finger me hard, just soft and easy. >I don't like my breast squeezed or my nipples pinched hard. I love soft touches and my nipples sucked on. >I love oral, but prefer to give more then receive. >I love passionate sex. Both romantic soft touching, slow fucking or I love to be taken and fucked hard depending on the moment. >I want to be picked up and seduced in public as well as being touched or have sex in public. >I have a thing about car sex and I love the image of a bad biker girl. >I want to find a guy that I can call on anytime for sex. > I want a guy who loves to go dancing, and partying at clubs or just relax at a bar with friends >I want to have a guy friend who we can go to concerts, events, and motorcycle runs with. >I want a guy who loves the outdoors, camping, fishing, going to the river, boating, or just hanging out at our place. >I love the idea of the guy staying at our house over night and fucking him in bed next to my husband while he is asleep. This drives my husband and I both crazy. >I love to be nasty and bad and I want the guy to be as well. >I want a guy who is not camera shy because we enjoy taking pix, but his face can be covered like my husbands if need be. >I want the guy to have a motorcycle, preferably a HD, but not a must. He has to love to go on rides and extend the friendship on the rode >Last but not least, we want the guy to be STD free. I love to play bareback and I am a certified cum lover and I love cum everywhere. That is a deal breaker. I basically want the guy to be like my husband sexually. If this is you please contact us. If it's not, sorry. Patricia

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As a man, I would love to have two women to myself, for several reasons, seeing if I have what it takes to please two women, seeing all parties trying to please each other, seeing two women pleasing each other as I watch. Now as a man, invited to join a couple (man and woman) what would I do, I try to put my feet in her shoes and she what she wants, to have two men doing there best to make her feel special, for her man, watching her have a good time, as if he was the man with her, but unable to watch his love have pleasure as the 3rd person if he was in the act himself. Her fantasy of being with two men, for many reasons, to wear out to men for her own pride, I seen women that can wear out two men and still has the energy to keep going.

Since I would love to be with two women, I just can't see why a woman shouldn't have the same desires of being with two men, and if I was invited to be that 3rd, I find it to be special to be invited, it is not in my nature to thing about replacing the man she loves, but to add to there love. It takes special love in a couple to let the one you love to enjoy the heights of pleasure with whoever there with. With more woman being bi and enjoying ffm, more women will enjoy the pleasures of a woman, which I understand a woman are great and to have wonderful woman there for you is outstanding. With mfm, there is still pleasure for the woman, but less for the man she loves when with a fmf.

I think I am babbling on to much, but as long as pleasure of all parties involved is the key goal, we all win.

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We also enjoy MFM encounters.we always look for males that have a good sence of humor and a great personality.We used to have a great time with a few males several years ago but over time they have moved away or they have met a girlfriend and don't play anymore.But we have just about given up meeting new males due to the fact we will meet them and then they try to get me to meet them behind my hubby's back.It has happened numerous times and we are getting fed up with singles and and are just playing with cples form now on.

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We enjoy threesomes and have done a few. There have been so many good things written here already. The only thing I would add is to meet ahead of time or at least allow enough time before playing to talk some and get comfortable with one another. We found this works the best for us.

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Right now I am seeing two married couples and we are the best of friends. I guess one reason is that maybe the husband gets off seeing his wife with another man. And the wife has the best of both worlds, while one man is taking a break the other male is taking care of the wife/girl friend.

So far we have had a very good time and everyone has been very adult about this, they know that I am super clean, neat, and most of all very respectfull and DISCREET.

There are a lot of couples who may be interested but they need to take the first step and look up some of these males who enjoy a good 3-sum.

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Mxnascar-If you are looking for a man to join you, do the following:

1. Do a search for all certified, paid, members within the distance you are willing to travel; 2. Delete any who do not have pics on their profile; 3. Pay more attention to those who have pics having sex with many different people, rather than just cock or solo shots; 4. Contact the people who have certified them and ask their opinion as to whether this person would be appropriate for a first time MMF for you; 5. Communicate either by cyber or phone and determine whether the manner in which he conducts himself is consistent with what you are looking for. 6. If at all possible, schedule a date for a drink/appetizer to meet and talk. Then, if you feel that you may click, set another date to play.

Good luck! Many couples get started in the lifestyle with a good MMF experience with a capable, considerate, fit, popular single man.

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click on mail in the profile of the person you want to contact.

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When it comes to a single male, we look for someone who is interested in more than getting laid. Someone who is within 10 years of Mrs. Valovers in age. Someone with some interests in common with ours so we have something ELSE to talk about besides sex. Naturally, if Mrs. Valovers is going to invite a single male to play with us, because they are so abundant that she can afford to be picky, she will look for someone whose looks really make her tingle. We also want a single guy to live very close by, to facilitate getting together on very short notice when the mood strikes.

You can see that the superabundance of single men results in her ability to impose criteria on them that we would never be able to apply to couples, because it's so much harder to get a 4-person click. It's unfortunate for the single men, but it's the good fortune of women to be able to be so picky.

Oh, and one other thing. Since we find the skin color contrast of interracial sex so exciting, a black man will have the advantage over a white man, all other things being equal.

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Thats how we feel to Newtothis.

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