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Are you talking about the Asian variety or the European variety of unicorn? The Asian variety actually disquises itself as a horse until it finds the right person and the European version is always a male that will only reveal itself to virgins.

Oh, you're talking about single bisexual women. Sorry. Just finished reading a book called "Origin of the Unicorn Myth". Forgot the author, but it was a good read.

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And to think people talk about the unicorns being hard to find.

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I figured out what it is that we look for in a single man for a threesome. We're searching for the Holy Grail! LOL

Jim

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WOW! This thread should be suggested reading for single males who sign up on SLS. Most of our concerns and desires are already listed.

We'd just add that single males should try to figure out if a couple is new. Check out when they signed up, and what their profile says. New couples probably haven't turned their fantasy into reality. They might be nervous. They probably have already been contacted by a lot of jerk single guys with notes like "Fuck me tonite!". Which makes them more nervous.

Even when we, as a couple, contact new couples, we rarely get a reply. And when we do, it's usually "OMIGOD, What are we doing in here!"

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I have mostly stopped writing to people, even after I read the profile and I may match what there looking for, for the fact that a lot of the people I write to never write back, the system message saying not interested is enough for me, I don't take it personal, I know people have there needs and even if I match some, I can't match them all. Just not getting wrote back can be a bit disheartening, I know that there are so many men out there, many that are just rude and there profile, approach, obviously not read the persons profile there writing to, will make many people start to not want to write back, but there are a few if us that have hearts and do care.

Now for me, I do take time to write a though out letter when I write, I pay attention to what couples are looking for. It is the old saying, put yourself in the shoes of the one you are writing to and give the respect I expect. I write a profile that gives a good look into who I am and give it a bit of character to show things you can't see in words said.

I have met a lot of wonderful couples on this system, people that I am proud to have crossed there paths, but it is the distance factor that truly makes ever meeting not possible. I would be honored to meet some of the couples that have written in this topic, but I know it will not happen. The internet brings us all closer together so we can really see how far we really are from each other.

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Here's my take on the threesome thing. When it comes being part of a threesome, not only does the couple have to be comfortable with the single person, the single person has to be comfortable with the couple. Speaking for myself, I've turned down more couples than people I've tried to contact because the couple had the "You're a single man. My wife finds you attractive. Come fuck her tomorrow" attitude that in no way made me feel comfortable. If they were people I had contact with and they lived only a few minutes to an hour away, that would be one thing. But its usually people who have written me the first time and think I'm desperate to join them. Only thing I'm desperate for is to pay off the thirty thousand in medical bill from my brain surgery. If anyone's willing to help me do that...

Lastly, I don't think any one has to justify why they are not attracted to someone. You really have no control over who or what you like. You just do. Also, everyone has standards they don't want to compromise. Can you blame them? If you are really desperate for sex, you can get all the sex you want in your home town, no matter how small it is, simply by lowering your standards concerning the women you approach. But how good would you feel about yourself? Exactly.

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Hi mchristopher, I wish you were in my Lancaster as well. It's funny, but we do get people from Lancaster PA writing to us wanting to meet. I guess those amish folks are breaking out.

I would like to add to the comment about replying even if your not interested. Your right we shouldn't have to say why were not interested, but we try to let them know that were only looking for people from our town. It gets really frustrating when guys or couples respond from 100's even 1000's of miles away wanting to actually meet. I guess they don't look at the text in the profile and only the pix.

I think the "sorry not interested " reply is fine, but at least reply. It is just rude not to.

Patricia and Mark

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JaiDawn is correct. The concept of "No means no" means that no one has to provide an explanation to another why they don't want to play. The standard response supplied by the Webmasters on this site of "Sorry, I'm not interested" serves the dual purpose of (i) communicating "No", and (ii) doing so in a polite manner.

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It is no ones business why I am not attracted to them. I should not and will not tell them. You can't always say why you are attracted to one person and not another.

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As a single white male, I've also met with some very nice couples and have had some very nice, hot times. What gets me though, you read the ads that the people put out, you check the age limits, what they're looking for and say to yourself, "gee, sounds like me" so you write to them only to never get a reply or sorry, it doesnt seem we are compatible... i dont understand that at all. i wish people would at least respond somehow instead of not at all, and if someone isnt compatible, put a little thing in there saying what part isnt compatible especially when the guy meets all the requirments. I look at those ads as phonies. thank you for listening, this was just my opinion. i bid a farewell.

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