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Show my husband with your honesty, sincerity, and ability to fish. Show me your intelligence, conversational skills, and your ability to impress my husband :)

Be our friend and forget about sex for a minute. It'll happen when the time is right if we hit it off socially.

Be well all, Mary~still looking for a job

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We look for: 1. A man who can write an email longer than one sentence. 2. A man who can start a letter with a salutation and then SIGN it. 3. A man who is genuinely interested in more than simply getting laid. 4. A man who is articulate. 5. A man who is clean, clipped fingernails and not long hair (Her preference) 6. A man reasonably close to our age so we have common life interests and experiences. 7. A man living fairly close to us. 8. A man who will call the next day and thank Kay. There are probably more but that's it for now!!

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We were in the lifestyle for many years..had alot of fun and met some wonderful people...We enjoyed some MFM threesomes(not enough as far as I was conserned..lol) It was my wifes favorite activity.BUT...all that came crashing down by chosing the wrong single man to join us.Married men are much better for MFM in my book.They already have a partner and wont try to take yours away...that is what happened to us.I let my wife try to get a single guy to join us...and instead he tried to break us up...we have been together for 20 years so needless to say he did not sucseed...all he did was make my wife want to change our lifestyle all together...So ...if ever I can talk her into MFM again it will be with married or attached men only...guys who just want to add to our relationship...not take away

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But wouldnt you have to write back to the guy to find out anything about him?

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I have written to many couple just asking if they meet single guys.What is so wrong with responding back to that?....I dont get it...Skynard

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Cre8tive has a point. It is about what a couple wants in a single male.

But it should be the couple doing the conversation, not just one half of the couple. More often than not, I believe they don't always know one is doing the talking without them.

Not to put down free members, but I'm finding the more serious swingers are willing to pay for this service of meeting people vs the ones who have spent nothing. So right now I'm only willing to meet people who have invested in this lifestyle.

Believe me, I'm not bitter about people changing their minds. It happens in life all the time. But if a couple decides to enter into this lifestyle, they should both be in the loop on meeting potential partners.

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Well let's put another spin on it.

I had a couple contact me (their choice) and we traded emails several times. I offered to travel to them, gave them the opportunity to meet first, see if we click, etc.

The emails I got back from them said that the hubby would love to see me stuff my cock into his wife, etc. Not a bad responce one would think :)

So they posted a new pic, I emailed them back commenting that the latest pic was great and I'd love to tit-fuck her (since their previous emails were pretty explicit in content I didn't think the tit-fuck was out of line). So I get an email back saying I'm too rude. Go figure.

What I think is (and verified on another occasion) is that the hubby is trolling for guys in some cases that the wife isn't up on all the previous emails that were traded. I know that even some guys want to meet with me WITHOUT his wife "to see if we are compatible". Yeah, right.

So if couples want to have a 3some and want guys to join, be honest and both agree to meet with males and make sure both of you are on the same page and not work independent of each other.

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With us we have found two guys that we truely wanted to continue having fun with. One fell in love and got out of it. The other was really just fulfilling a need with out a committment which is cool. But he could not handle it said that to emotionally for him.

Since then we can not find a serious single male. Would love to find the right guy for the wife on a semi regular basis. But either they are not attractive to the wife or they are not for real.

So we do have a couple that will occasional entertain mfm for the wife or fmf also

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Baldwin:

Those suggestions are about a mindset, and attitude. Look at the ages of the successful, single, men. I suspect they are all older than you...probably 40s+. It's cool to stick to your guns. But this is a couples game. It's the same reason I prefer guys my age or older. I am attracted to a very specific type of guy. Good luck. Me, myself and I. I mold myself to the couple's needs, wants, desires. Swimming up stream doesn't work.

Mischief..happy to be the guest in several comfy places.

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Mtn7 is right. I have been lucky enough to find a few nice single guys. Luckily Mtn7 is one of them. He is a very good friend. But oldfart is right. I, and I am sure others, get plenty of of cock pictures, wanna fuck emails, and generally tacky contacts. What surprises me is even the older men are doing these things. Let's put this in the man's perspective. If you see a picture of a good looking engine do you buy the car without seeing the rest of the body? Do you tell your friends "Hey that rust bucket is mine but the engine is big!"

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