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User Details are only visible to members.	So many good responses on this thread. There're always a lot more guys than couples or women on these sites. And a fair number of guys are always complaining about how they can't get any. My advice for any of you guys is to read this whole thread. It is spot on. There are couples out there that are very much looking for single guys. And yet the ratio of guys who initiate contact and guys who actually get through the process and follow through is maybe 50 to one. The interesting part is, almost all those guys disqualify themselves one way or another. Believe me, this isn't all that great a situation for the couples either. It's quite a bit of work sifting through all the crap that comes in, at least if you try to stay polite. Any couple that continues to accept hits from single guys obviously is serious about it - it's too much work otherwise. :) We have a really long profile, and good photos. That means we put in a fair amount of work to try and make it easy for you to decide if you might be interested in us. Simple politeness, as well as an opportunity to display your cluefullness, should indicate that when you write to folks like us you should include pics, and you should write something substantial. If you reply to our long profile with a three-sentence email, it feels rude. We're not saying that's right or wrong, it's just how we feel. We don't want to have to exchange 10 emails with you just to get to the level of info that we've posted right up front in our profile. Also, accept that in many cases there simply won't be any physical attraction. That doesn't mean you're ugly, it just means there's no click there. The same applies when you browse ads of females, right? So accept that you may do all the right things and still get a "not interested, sorry". It's human nature and we all do it. :) But for the right guy, we are ready. :) So guys, my thoughts are, there is action out there for you, people who would love to have you - but almost all of you manage to disqualify yourselves somehow. You can do better. :)
Saint Petersburg FL			Username hidden (3 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Celtic cross you are unique and special. Please keep that attitude!
Sparta NJ			Username hidden (26 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well personally........... for us a Single Male needs to actually know that Ladies in this lifestyle believe it or not WE actually do have minds of our own and some are doing this becuase we want to not because our MAN wants us to. They actually need to show up when they say they are.............and my oh so personal favorite get over the dang tool size delima....... so what if the husband has a bigger tool then you get over it your both going to be pleasing a lovely lady and remember it and may want it again. The male who does join us must know 100% he can NOT do better then my husband nor can he take his place at all..........ALONE never... wont happen. Soft and sensual is good but yes sometimes a little rough and more intense can be awesome..........but the men need to know even ladies with a lil meat on the bones are and can be SEXY as hell to. Friends are always a plus and knowing something about the ones your going to be with can only make for a better experience. Have fun yall and always wear a smile :} Laterzzzzzzzzzzz, CJ & Markie
Castlewood VA			Username hidden (171 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	~Cat here the female half of Bodyscape I know what I am looking for: I love the idea of DP. I would love it with two HARD excited phallus stroking away. I would love it with one burried in my derrier that is long and thick and hard enough for me to know it is there. I have driven D2 crazy in the past with a vibrator there and I will tell you that when both my back door and my front door cum at the same time... woa! Crackatoa! As for the single men...haven't found the right match...yet... I want someone who unserstands seduction and doesn't just go for a hello kiss and then lick my nipples and exspect to "go in" from there. IMHO, this should be a dance of seduction and I would like to see if you and my love could blow my mind and turn me into a limp satified pile of pleasure. Enough said. Sorry if that was too... blunt or risque...but hey...you asked...
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (366 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LOL...New and 100 aren't we all!!!!! JoAnn
Tucson AZ			Username hidden (7698 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And of course, we are seeking the really big one!!!! LOL
Maryville TN			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Show my husband with your honesty, sincerity, and ability to fish. Show me your intelligence, conversational skills, and your ability to impress my husband :) Be our friend and forget about sex for a minute. It'll happen when the time is right if we hit it off socially. Be well all, Mary~still looking for a job
Hattiesburg MS			Username hidden (527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Newfuncple...Does visiting my son (UT student) count as being close. Because if it does than I'm 8 for 8 on your list.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9701 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We look for: 1. A man who can write an email longer than one sentence. 2. A man who can start a letter with a salutation and then SIGN it. 3. A man who is genuinely interested in more than simply getting laid. 4. A man who is articulate. 5. A man who is clean, clipped fingernails and not long hair (Her preference) 6. A man reasonably close to our age so we have common life interests and experiences. 7. A man living fairly close to us. 8. A man who will call the next day and thank Kay. There are probably more but that's it for now!!
Maryville TN			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We were in the lifestyle for many years..had alot of fun and met some wonderful people...We enjoyed some MFM threesomes(not enough as far as I was conserned..lol) It was my wifes favorite activity.BUT...all that came crashing down by chosing the wrong single man to join us.Married men are much better for MFM in my book.They already have a partner and wont try to take yours away...that is what happened to us.I let my wife try to get a single guy to join us...and instead he tried to break us up...we have been together for 20 years so needless to say he did not sucseed...all he did was make my wife want to change our lifestyle all together...So ...if ever I can talk her into MFM again it will be with married or attached men only...guys who just want to add to our relationship...not take away
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