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User Details are only visible to members.	Different folks, different strokes. Perhaps a guy just for some wild fucking excitement. or a guy to be a friend and to socialize with outside the bedroom also. Perhaps a guy for a one night only and perhaps a guy to become for a long term friendship. The truth of the matter it is like swinging couples. Either the" faceless fuck" or a good friendship that develops. For us it is for a long term friendship which requires that the 3 of us have a mutual rapport. That is, I can enjoy him as a good friend and my wife can enjoy him as her special lover. Some hubbys seek an mfm 3some to satisfy their seceret interest in bi activities. Some one no part of touching the other guy, and yet some (like me) want a good friend to share his wife with and be free on occasion to enjoy a bit of quick oral bi during a hot mfm. Guys if you want to get to first base or beyond then you should realize that It is still about rapport with both. Frankly, no one fucks my wife unless he shows respect for us both. The more affection he shows her the further I wll allow (and encourage) things to go. I think you will find that the best ice breaker is to Just try to become friends with them.
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User Details are only visible to members.	What more can a single guy ask for BITSA, you hit the nail on the head when you wrote: "it is honesty, courteous demeanor, a recognition you are an additive, not a substitute, and a sense of humor". If a single guy can understand this it should be easy for him to participate in this lifestyle with couples that are friendly to single males. Single and married guys get into trouble when they try to force themselves on couples
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9697 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Could not have said that better Curious; that pretty much is the bottom line.
Montgomery AL			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Tann: Writing with complete words is a plus. You are not writing Real Estate listings. It's a total turn off. No Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Back to the thread at hand: What are couples truly looking for in a man for a threesome? Some don't carry about man being married some do, OK. So what else are they looking for?
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OOk trust versus distrust...In this lifestyle you take things tongue and cheek such as certain volunteered tid bits of info....As far as the condom issue which has been addresses in other forums.....that trust is on a completely different level~your quality or life/living period~ as far as the lifestyle goes. Majority of people who are not clean do not know it so, though they trust they are clean with all honesty that may not be the case. But to get back to the subject certain risks you take in this lifestyle just as there's a risk you can be in an accident everyday, when you take somebody's word they are not married but single.
Montgomery AL			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	any single man would love to be with you two
Clermont FL			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Being a single male is the hardest thing to try to accomplish in this lifestyle. Most regard Us, as guys just trying to get laid, and not really in the lifestyle. i have found the best approuch is to just be myself. That ussually works, and I develop friendships first. Once we are friends, it opens a new world to explore
Clermont FL			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First as a wife speaking I like to see a single man who can be respectful and recognize and respect the fact I am not a single female but, WE are a couple and he is there for fun only perhaps, some mutual friendship at the most but not a relationship or a commitment. This is the reason this is called swinging. Personality is the next. I tell those that message us that make comments like, "I wanna meet so i can sex you; Hot ass can it get some; or I travel there let's hook up", single men honestly put come a dime a dozen. If you want to get with a couple you need to show yourself different from what many couples think of single men but, try to be someone worthy of their time instead of referring to the wife only or comments like that. So simply put use your common sense and be a gentleman not a horny person who could not get a hooker.
Montgomery AL			Username hidden (21 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey that me. But seriously guys that are new to swinging read PolyGrl posting. That is what is expect from us 99% of the time and anything else is just unacceptable.
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

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