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User Details are only visible to members.	So you see it does work Spicy. The reason it worked is that both of you wanted it to work and that you gave him respect and he returned it. This caused you all to be more open and friendly. I know all the horror stories from the couples and when you find a great guy it's so much fun. Maybe couples (generally speaking) and single females would find that if they gave someone a chance to prove himself they would find that we(single guys) can be part of this lifestyle. It doesn't matter if your a couple, single guy or a single female somebody had to offer to open up lines of communication and someone has to reciprocate. Most people find it easier not to reply or shoot off the famous "not compatible" and stop any further contact without really getting to try and know that person. Believe me you can't know a person from a few pictures and a profile. We all need to communicate with each other and make any friendship work with great rewards for all involved
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9699 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	YES, YES, YES! That's it, that's what I was try to say. Dam, you're good. I bet more ways than one. ;-)
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JJF: I've always liked your posts. Your default pic is very nice. You have a great butt. I think chameleon may be a little strong. I use the word flexible. I am who I am. I don't change for any couple. But, I am very flexible in my range of behaviors. I've found you never really know what is going on until you are there. I ignore the words. I look for behavior. I assume anything could happen from massage to intercourse. I watch the same sex partner for my main clues. I don't enter a FMF with a goal behavior in mind. I've found that helps tremendously. I agree that it seems like so many criteria that your head will spin. I only focus on respect, consideration, and relaxation. I allow the balance to pan out one way or another. In other words, I have no axe to grind. I honor my boundaries and work within them. I have fun. The balance just happens. rare Mischief to pairs.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry no, but I do have an Aunt in New York, Hmmm.....Now how far is to Ithaca ;-)
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry no, but I do have an Aunt in New York, Hmmm.....Now how far is to Ithaca ;-)
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry no, but I do have an Aunt in New York, Hmmm.....Now how far is to Ithaca ;-)
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ah, gotcha, thanks for clarifying. Now, any chance of moving closer? ;-) L.
Ithaca NY			Username hidden (1611 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	CnL04, I sorry when I re-read my posting it did sound like guys should be everything to everyone. No, I’m not frustrated at all I have more fun meeting couples and getting to know them and some work out for both parties and some don’t but all become friends. I do stay true to myself and that wasn’t my point; my point was to be understanding and flexible to the needs of the couple. As for as your luck; there will be most of the guy you meet that are just looking for the quick lay or they are chicken sh*t (move on) and I sorry they are out there, it must be male supremacy syndrome. Talk to you soon, Johnny
Weatherford TX			Username hidden (56 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can understand the frustration you express, JJF, but I have to disagree- at least, for us. We don't want a "chameleon", we want someone who is who he is. If the person he is doesn't match the people we are, then we're not looking for him to be false just to accommodate us. And to be honest, although I don't deny that single guys have their work cut out for them here and that they often get unfairly stereotyped, but we haven't had a whole lotta luck with the single guys we've been in touch with. A few have turned out to be looking for cheap and easy (husband? what husband? I'm sure I can satisfy you better....ho, hum). The ones we actually were interested in have gone MIA. And the few times I made initial contact with single guys, they either never responded or turned out to be posers of one kind or another. So for the couples that want a single guy, I also say, good luck! L.
Ithaca NY			Username hidden (1611 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Let see if I can sum it up for the guys out there. Guys I put it simply, you must be a chameleons. More you’re able to change yourself to the needs of the couple the more offers you will get. Sorry, but it’s like selling a car to a couple, you’re selling yourself and the car to both, anyone thing can make or break the deal. So guys it’s work and if you thing you can just set back and say look at me, then you’ll be setting in the corner all night long. Good luck to all.
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