What is a 3some : Swingers Discussion 53939

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TOPIC: What is a 3-some

Created by: somefun1223 Original Starting post for this thread:
what is a three some ? to us it is when all parties are into each other not one watching the other two ! any coment on this matter ? thanks ....somefun

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User Details are only visible to members.	A 3some is 3 people be they male or female all having fun together. I might involve one watching and then jumping in later or all 3 participating at one time mmm mmm mmm. Excuse me now while I call my other man! mrs
Lancaster PA			Username hidden (544 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Egos can be a problem. In the situation of a MFM with the males being straight. Then it should not be forgotten that the focus is to pleasure the female, make her comfortable and enjoy the experience. There is nothing wrong with a woman showing a little extra excitement over being with a "new" guy. For the Male of the couple he should try to understand that and not be threatened by the situation. Keeping the female's pleasure as the goal is the whole point in exploring a MFM. A threesome is any experience where three people are involved and actively involved in the sexual situation. (So any situation where one partner that just sits back and watches the whole time I don't see as a 3some.) I don't believe its important that the two of the same sex be bisexual.
Sandston VA			Username hidden (195 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Competition changes the energy for me. I can get laid. duh. I don't need insecurity to insure a good time. yuck. I do 3-somes for the fun and bonding not sex. Sex is best 1 on 1. If I really want sex with no work bottoms up at a club will provide all I could need. Your mileage WILL vary. No Mischief with competing males.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To us, an MFM threesome is not a competition. We get into them because she can be more pleased by two than by one. If the playing partner does see it as a competition, that just means she gets pleased even more - and that's the point of us getting into it in the first place!
Shadyside PA			Username hidden (319 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	nice points......somefun
Whitney Point NY			Username hidden (495 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My own preference is FMF. Two bonded females pleasuring the M and by default each other. Those have been the most fun and have seemed to work the best even without the friendship that would have made it even better. MFM has involved me feeling like a competition play surface. One guy trying to out do/last the other. I haven't had an MFM where the gentlemen worked together to much extent. It was easy for me to feel "divided" in that situation. The FF while the M watches is definitely a 3-some. He doesn't sit there all night..smile. I know more than a couple of voyeurs who get a hell of a rush from the energy blow back. I know I have the times I have been lucky enough to watch a great scene. I have no problem sitting out while a couple connects. One man's ceiling is another man's floor. Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	to us no, but thats our opinion doesnt make it the same to us . not that it isnt any fun for that to happen but just doesnt seem or feel the same ...........somefun
Whitney Point NY			Username hidden (495 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If I understand your comment correctly, it is only a 3sum while there is active sex going on ? So, by your definition if 2 of the people are engaged in an activity and the third person is watching it is not a 3sum ? Just want to clarify before I comment further is all. Thank you.
Ann Arbor MI			Username hidden (44 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	its not a 3 some to us if all 3 arent playing with all just our opinion
Whitney Point NY			Username hidden (495 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, we think you're off the mark here. Two women can pleasure a man, or two men can pleasure a woman, in either scenario, making the opposite sex's pleasure be the target of the threesome without ever touching each other or simply just watching. We've done both and it's always wonderful for the solitary sex in the threesome to be that center of attention. We don't have bi-male play with a MFM, and we never have to have bi-female play in a FMF, though that usually just kind of happens. :) We think those are the best kinds of threesomes.
Nashville TN			Username hidden (133 post)

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