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TOPIC: What's the attraction of a MFM 3-some to women
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Of course it's not ALL about her pleasure. My pleasure is in pleasing and watching her be pleased. Believe me, the men get ours in the process. We can't fuck her and get our cocks sucked without feeling the physical pleasures too. She is very attentive to the men as well, and that adds to the mental/visual fucking.

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I notice it is usually the husbands that post this type of thing. Wives know better and appreciate that the "third party" not only benefits but does, in fact, bring much to the table.

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Implying that it's all about *her pleasure* is the same as saying that the men get nothing out of it, and are there to do some sort of labor. Non sense. This *ain't* about martyrdom, it's about all involved, each and every person that swings does so for absolute and total selfish reasons. Intellectual laziness is unattractive.

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Definitely agree with M&M. It's all about pleasing the lady and complying with her desires. The "third party" needs to be carefully vetted so he knows that we're all there for her pleasure. Most decent guys understand that, and when it "clicks", it's mind-blowing for all concerned!

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Right on M&M. Her pleasure is our pleasure but my wife does want both men to get off for her to truely enjoy the evening. Eventually she needs the male orgasm to occur to trigger hers. Usually after her first twenty or thirty. Some men delay cumming too long which disappoints her. It does'nt have to be a marathon to be enjoyable. We find after two hours there are diminishing returns. But I digress....

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Good point PG. Like I said, some people get off on being treated like crap. Some don't. Some like to be gang-banged, some don't. Whatever your preference, have fun.

As for the topic of this thread, what attracts us to a MFM 3-sum is her total pleasure. Reality sucks, but he doesn't have the stamina that he had when he was 25 and could go all night. Another M lets her keep going, while he gets his engine kick started again. There's no down time for her to lose the mood and it's very stimulating to him, so his down time isn't very long either. For him, there's just something about watching her go down on a guy with her awesome BJ's and riding a cock like a jockey at the Kentucky Derby. All of those horny fantasies, when he was younger and thought that stuff only happens in porn, are coming true. It's okay if she spends most of the time on the additional M because we have the rest of the time together after he leaves. The lingering mental images keep it going.

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some ladies just don't like to try to split their attention between two men, if they prefer one on one that is their choice. I have played with up to 3 men at one time and don't think I would want to play with more then that at once. I like being able to be in contact with all the guys in one way or another all the time. Is that what everyone prefers? Not its not. This is all about finding what we like what turns us on.

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As you wish M'lady...

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I guess I'm having a tough time understanding the Mrs. being stressed about pleasing the men. In our MFM experiences, it's not about her trying to please two men. It's about two men pleasing her. Believe me, we WILL get ours in the process. When we set it up, we make sure the SM understands that she will always be treated with respect and we won't tolerate her being treated like a whore. Some people get off on that, but my Mrs. will always be treated like a lady.

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Fully aware and checking my travel schedule...

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