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TOPIC: Voyerism
Created by: LovetheLife0206
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We are new to this lifestyle. Have met some couples,but it comes in waves. Pretty much consider me the actor and my husband the spectator. Are people turned off because he really just wants to watch? He will join in when i ask but just curious. I am BI and i do play with both. Just want opinions.

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Absolutely with you on this. We love pics. We like to take turns taking pics to get different group dynamic perspectives. Plus it's like fulfilling my boyhood fantasy of being an adult photographer.

Toledo OH
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Sounds very familiar S_V_C. A lot like us. :-)

Marietta OH
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mr svc says he likes to watch (and take pictures). He says it's hot to see the woman you love in a porno. We both want eachother to have fun and good sex. And we enjoy watching eachother please partners.

mrs svc

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my hubby is a photographer and there are times when im with another guy or two that he likes to watch and take pics but in my mind I still like to please him as well

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I have a female friend I play with often. I love when she tells me to find her an extra guy or 2 for her to play with. Most of the time if we have to extra guys I will just sit back and watch. I feel when watching I can see every facial expression she makes, watch how her body reacts to diffrent things, and hear every sound she makes. That is definitely very exciting to me.

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The first time Trooper mentioned he would like to see me with another guy I was shocked. And a bit appalled. I had been in a relationship for 10 years prior to meeting Trooper that the guy was controlling, possessive and jealous. To go from that to a guy that like if when we went out and I was dressed sexy that other guys would look at me and he liked it was a wonderful change, but a bit odd to me at first.

I obviously got over the shocked and appalled part ;) I'm not big into watching, but I do like being watched.

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Like you, I thought I was odd when I told my then wife that I thought it would be hot seeing her with another guy. She was NOT interested. That was 15 years ago! It wasn't until after we divorced and I started dating more sexually open women that I found it was not unusual at all. Now as a SM I find lots of guys who enjoy watching. One of the funniest encounters was when a guy brought his girlfriend to my place and once she and I were on the bed, I noticed him opening the blinds and pretty soon, he slipped outside and "peaked" in throught the window. LMAO

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Husband here

I have always been amassed at the amount of husbands the enjoy watching there wife with others. I am that way and at first I thought I was weird. But, I guess not, I know that at the end of all the playmates her and I will have some really great sex.

The funny thing is I found out she likes to watch me as well and if we happen to be playing in the same room on the same bed we tend to watch the other having fun. We have been in the Lifestyle for about 8 years and we still feel the same way.

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perhaps couples where they are looking for a BI female to play with? You'd have to find one that didn't mind him watching but I'm sure there are some out there.

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Actually for new commers like us who are still figuring out what we like, that sounds like a pretty easy transition for us.....I mean as long as it was obvious that you two were a couple I wouldn't mind him enjoying himself with the visuals...too bad you don't live in NJ!

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