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TOPIC: Trying to meet half a couple

Created by: JOEY8199 Original Starting post for this thread:
Well. Good news and bad news. Good: My wife went from not interested to overdrive....WOO HOO! Bad: We now have a whole new group of people to tell to flip off. My wife does all the communicating after the "initial" communication of interest. Thats done by private email. Which we both have access to. Lately a new trend has developed. Once some guys know they are talking to her and her alone, they ask or push for her to meet them without me. Or to meet the first time without me. We put a couple ad on CL the other day to check the local variety and look for something a little more specific and quicker than it takes on here or the other site. And got a slew of emails that right in the first email asked to meet her "without me knowing" Dang guys can be stupid sometimes. First, I find it quite insulting. Especially since nothing indicates we are doing anything other than as a couple. Second I find it insulting. Third. She finds it insulting. Thats just like........Really bad manners.. I guess they get caught up in actually talking to a real live woman, alone, and dont realize that I get copied on every word of every conversation. Ive realized that no matter how much you explain something, some people only pick up a word or phrase. Like when we mention that I sometimes like to watch, or join. Well we had to put a whole dam disclaimer in the profiles about that. Saying that its MY CHOICE what I do when WE are together. Before the emails went from wanting to meet us as a couple to "Hey, Ill come do you and LET him watch" Oh, why thank you kind sir, for allowing me to watch you have sex with my wife. Im having junior high gym class flashbacks again. Getting picked last for the team.

Created by: JOEY8199
Original Starting post for this thread:

Well.  Good news and bad news.

Good:  My wife went from not interested to overdrive....WOO HOO!

Bad:  We now have a whole new group of people to tell to flip off.

My wife does all the communicating after the "initial" communication of interest.  Thats done by private email.  Which we both have access to.

Lately a new trend has developed.  Once some guys know they are talking to her and her alone, they ask or push for her to meet them without me.  Or to meet the first time without me.

We put a couple ad on CL the other day to check the local variety and look for something a little more specific and quicker than it takes on here or the other site.

And got a slew of emails that right in the first email asked to meet her "without me knowing"

Dang guys can be stupid sometimes.  

First, I find it quite insulting.  Especially since nothing indicates we are doing anything other than as a couple.

Second I find it insulting.

Third.  She finds it insulting.

Thats just like........Really bad manners..  I guess they get caught up in actually talking to a real live woman, alone, and dont realize that I get copied on every word of every conversation.  

Ive realized that no matter how much you explain something, some people only pick up a word or phrase.

Like when we mention that I sometimes like to watch, or join.  Well we had to put a whole dam disclaimer in the profiles about that.  Saying that its MY CHOICE what I do when WE are together.  

Before the emails went from wanting to meet us as a couple to "Hey, Ill come do you and LET him watch"

Oh, why thank you kind sir, for allowing me to watch you have sex with my wife.

Im having junior high gym class flashbacks again.  Getting picked last for the team.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Her hero!
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User Details are only visible to members.	Akron I had a friend who had a car like that until it got stolen. He stopped in his personal car to rescue a lady trying to drown herself. He placed her in the front seat of his car while he waited for us to get there. She drove off with his car...LOL
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User Details are only visible to members.	on the flip side of that what about all the women claiming to be bi but only wants to meet or play with the wife. Is that really bi or gay?
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User Details are only visible to members.	It is a bumble bee
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User Details are only visible to members.	Nice car!
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nic, always honored to be your wingman.
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User Details are only visible to members.	I thought someone deleted a post... Makes sense now Have fun gentleman
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User Details are only visible to members.	Email it to both of us and let's see who makes plans the quickest. I know, I know, it's NOT a competition.... Don't be embarrassed, as long as you give me credit for Fun's wit and blame him for my lack thereof, it's all good.
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User Details are only visible to members.	It was. So embarrassing. But hell, if both of you get laid because of my good is it really so wrong? I'll find it and email you. Embarassedly, J
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User Details are only visible to members.	Even when he isn't trying, Fun is one helluva wingman. ;^D
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