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SB wonders how she could have missed noting a sexy "British" accent. I do adore the foreign accents especially during crucial sexual moments - so far my fwb's sexy accents consists of native Italian and French, perhaps we are ready to explore the "Mother Tongue" of England in great detail.
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okay people... that's it .... all day I look in conversation about Christmas tree and some dude who cry and complain about girlfriend trust. what's going on? again ... what's going on? I don't expect all the time some sexy theme but it's too much... do you have some fun and nice experience... some nice cruise experience? do you have some nice and beautiful friend /male,female/ on your job but you don't have a chance do anything? and 1,000,000 theme more... today you kill me completely..
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Thanks NicAtNight. I hope we do. that is one of my underlying fears I guess (female) we are new to this, but I want to be comfortabe enough that I dont want to be afraid to be comfortable. I still feel if you are both in agreement you need to follow through no matter what the sexual tension is. I no I can say sorry "Hey baby put the eggs up and come up here"
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it is all about communication and you really need to hash the "what ifs" All couples have different comfort levels. Finding your own is what is important. It can be no play if the spouse isn't present or it can be "I'm going out of town for a week come over and fuck my wife while I'm gone as often as you want". But you both have to be comfortable with it.

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Welcome to the forum jpforbes. It is good that the two of you have discussed this possibility and have a rule in place, I am sure you also communicate that to any new playmates, right?

Good communication doesn't end with the couple, it is equally important you share your rules with anyone you invite to play. I would never want to overstep a boundary but if none is set and the wife is receptive to playing while the husband is in the other room, I may ask her if he is ok with it but I am hoping they have already sorted this out ahead of time.

The OP sounds like they had not talked in advance and now are sifting though the fallout.
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I wouldnt want to share my bed after, I feel and I hope my man does to that that is our safe zone. We made a deal that we only play together in the same room and that would break my trust(wife) because that was our deal.
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Sorry for the post delete. Fixed my typos and added a addendum to the original post.
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weird people, so what if gf have sex without you? what happens if you have sex without your girlfriend? probably you don't make any questions. anyway I have my problem, how to release balls... :)
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To the OP:

This is the sort of thing you should both know what is OK and what's not. I'd only be upset if we had agreed "No funny business unless we're both there".

So, it's happened. Now what? Talk about it - is this OK, or is it not? If it's not, it should never happen again, unless you revisit this rule.
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