Three Some question: Swingers Discussion 43525

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TOPIC: Three Some question

Created by: DANANDFDN Original Starting post for this thread:
We are thinking about having our first MFM (this will include DP = vaginal and anal). What I was looking for was others first experiences - good and bad.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Just my thought: I've found that if I take care of my wifes desires and needs, she will ensure that my needs and desires are well taken care of. When I play or make love to her, it's all about her, and she feels it's all about me. We take good care of each other. In turn, we feel the same way about other couples that we're with too. Again, just my thoughts.
Billerica MA			Username hidden (32 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy posted thoughts that make sense. It's about them. I don't operate outside my boundaries, but I allow the couple to run the show. It's not about my pleasure, directly. Of course, no single would engage a couple if there was no fun. It IS about fun. I once picked up a guy. I didn't even know his name. It wasn't relevant. He had been taught by an older, married woman (27), when he was 15. I kept asking him..What do you want? What would you like? His answer was the same every time. "I'll get mine." That sums up the thinking of some very astute men. BTW, He did get his. (WEG) That seems like the best way to approach couples and single women. It sure worked for me...
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just like to have fun.
Oklahoma City OK			Username hidden (38 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	CuriousNew.......I never needed a Mercy Fuck and never will, to bad your thinking is only geared to the bad experiences you've had. It's obvious you don't understand what this lifestyle is all about. If you think I'm dishonest than you can rest assure that we'll never meet and that should make both of us happy. I don't need your cirtification to enjoy this lifestyle, others know who I am and how I gain their respect for what ever we decide to do. Rdy2.......please
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9672 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am sure diffrent people have diffrent reasond for swing. But for me ithe real turn on is seeing everyone else being pleased and having a good time. Sure i love to get my rocks off but, i can do that with my own wife and am totally satisfied with her. I can also wack off anytime i want. I have not got to swing or find other partners to enjoy getting my rocks off. I have been with women that looked like a super model and while i most assuredly enjoyed it, it did not hold a candle to having sex with my own wife , mostly i think because of our emotional attraction that is not there with swing partners, and rightly so. I can also say that my orgasim from wackin off is just as good as being with a woman in most ways ( must be the emotional attachment with my hand,lol) . What im getting at is that my enjoyment with swing comes from sharring with others and seeing THEM get off and have fun too. And if for some reason i did not get my rocks off i would still enjoy it, i WILL and most times do anyway, get my rocks off when i get back home with my wife and all the better with the thoughts of the evening in the back of my mind. I find it enjoyable just watching my wife and another cpl having sex, there again i WILL get my rocks off later,and if my wife was not up to it when we got home (never happens) i am sure i can have a totally enjoyable "wacky" experiance with my own five fingered orgy,lol. This is how my wife says she feels about swinging too. Your millage may however, vary.
Repton AL			Username hidden (80 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks CherokeeChick...at least you and Danny knew what I was trying to say. When people take things out of context and use it to try and give a differant meaning to what I was trying to say, there is no sense in commenting on their assumption. If communicating with sexual partners and agreeing to their and my boundries is being a lapdog than I plead guilty. I've been in this lifestyle for over 5 yrs meeting couples and singles and never had anyone not satisified with my effort even if I didn't get off. It's always a pleasureto enjoy their company. Besides I'm not really there for his enjoyment, I'm there for her enjoyment. BTW, We got some great fly fishin' here in PA especially on the Upper Delaware River. You got some nice water down there also. enjoy the time on the stream I love to loose myself in the solitude.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9672 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I took rdy2play's post to mean that to him the TURN ON for him was mostly about his seeing the other person being pleased and not just about getting his own rocks off. It may not have been worded exactly like that but thats what i understood him to be trying to get across.
Repton AL			Username hidden (80 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And Central What a WOMAN she is!!! Smile, winks at the lady..
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	<<I indulge her and my fantasies>> It's always nice to make sure that your fantasies are fulfilled. When I look at a 3some with a couple, I look at it as if it is sharing your wife with another man and I'm not talking about a posession thing. Let me tell you why. You are allowing me to enjoy something that you have between both of you. If I've gained your trust as a single guy and you invite me into your bedroom to fulfill your fantasies I'm going to make sure that I do the best job I can. I know it's your fantasy, if it's your first or if it's something you do as a normal part of your sexual pleasure. Why do I want to do a good job? Let's face it.....I want to be invited back to help satisify her needs. Mostly 3somes (mfm) are for the ladies pleasure. So, is it about me getting my rocks off. Not as far as I'm concerned. I have no expectation of any gratification. If I have done a good job and the lady is satisified than I know she will tell me or show me her appreciation without being obgliated to do so. I've learned over the years and maybe because I've been in this lifestyle for over 5 years, that pleasing a lady always brings rewards. If you cross the lady your dead meat and choking your own chicken is about the only reward you get.
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9672 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DANANDFDN, To answer your questions: 1) We have had MFMs. 2) We always ask the guy to join us. We rarely ever answer to single guy emails/IMs. 3) We've never met with a male half of a couple without his spouse. 4) Haven't had a DP with wifey since she's not into anal (I know a shame since she has such a great booty!) 5) We usually end up taking turns after a few hours just to give each other a break. Also, we tend to take turns when we are picture taking. Hope that helps out. Also, if I may say something regarding the statement made by the single guy. I don't "share" my wife, I indulge her and my fantasies. And I like to think that I'm a real man whether or not I choose to have a MFM 3some or not. That sort of statement makes me think of the mindset that a lot of single guys have that if they are invited to join a couple its because the hubby can't satisfy the wife. This is why single guys get such a bad rap here. Just my thoughts on it.
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