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May I ask if your wife knows you have profile on a swing site and that you are actively looking to meet couples and single females?

You might want to start there with your open and honest discussion about your wants and desires.

Just my $.02

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That's entirely possible. We have had difficulty finding people in our area who are willing to talk openly about sex, even at lifestyle parties. You know your wife best, so go with your gut. I hope you have a fantastic time!

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I can understand what you say....only she is not one to talk much about it and few words in this area say a lot from her. When I discussed meeting my friend and getting a hotel room, she only said it sounded like fun and I should book it. I had expected her to say no knowing she is aware of what we want.

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That's what you need to pay attention to. If you want the experience to be successful for you and your wife, then talk to her, find out what she wants, needs, expects, etc., because without involving her completely in the decision making, you're satisfying only yourself - and that will make the adventure short lived.

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Has SHE had any lifestyle experiences?

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Thanks Scandle, great advice. She knows I've had experiences before our marriage. My friend that evening was very flirty with her, she said she did like him and she said she found him attractive. I told her he wanted to join us for a mfm experience. She said no so I didn't push it.

We've talked a bit here and there about 3somes since. When he asked for us to meet him next week at a resort to drink and watch fireworks, I expected her to say no, she didn't, she said she was interested. So, I suggested we book a hotel nearby, hit some fun clubs, drink, relax and have fun. She asked if he would be with us, but we did not discuss 3somes. I said yes, She told me to book the hotel and said it sounded like fun.

I was truly surprised, I have talked about it but am not pushy at all. I expected a flat no. I told him to be friendly and not to expect anything. But, yes, I have had experiences, he and I shared an ex girlfriend a few times.

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doncondo, welcome to the forums. I hope you keep reading and posting and having fun here.

My answer is just my opinion based on personal experience and what I've read on the forums, so take what you like and leave the rest.

It sounds to me like you are horny AND your wife is warming up to the idea of an mfm, but to succeed at this beyond the date, you need to find out exactly what she wants and expects out of the threesome.

Do you have any experience at all at swinging? Some people find it is easier and better to start slow with soft swing (however you want to define it) and progress to more IF your wife wants it. Doing so can help build up trust between you (in that you aren't pushing her to do more than she is comfortable doing), avoid disappointments and confusion, and put a very positive spin on the whole experience.

Be ready to change course in the middle of things, too. She might change her mind and feel uncomfortable doing what you agreed to, or she might have so much fun that she'll want to go even further. Talk, talk, and talk some more. Don't worry if things stop in mid stroke because you need to talk about something. Your relationship with her is more important than any third party will ever be.

Good luck, and let us know how it goes!

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Watching porn one night, I asked her if she had a threesome would she prefer a mfm or fmf, her response was mfm for sure but she was not interested. Once in a while we talk about it, she knows I want it.

I introduced her one evening when out drinking to a male friend, he drank and hung out with us. At one time, he had his hand on her thigh which surprised me, it was there for some time. She kissed him when we parted and that was it. I told her the next day he wanted a mfm and I was into it also. She didn't say much.

He invited us to meet him to watch fireworks at a resort and have drinks. I told her of his idea. She didn't say much but thought it would be nice. The next day, I suggested we get a hotel at the resort, watch the fireworks and hit some clubs, drink and have fun. She asked if he would be there I said yes. She said it sounded like fun and told me to book the hotel.

I'm thinking she said no to a threesome, but have an inkling of curiosity due to the fact that we now are meeting a friend that wants a mfm with her and we are going to have drinks and a hotel room as well.

Am I just horny or does this sound possible? I also told my friend we will be there and have a room, but he should just be friendly and not anticipate anything. Would love to hear what others think.

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