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I'm not sure what the best age for swining is. I'm getting a lot more in my 40s than I did in my 30s. Back then, I felt like I had to work a lot harder at it. Now, I'm relaxing more and letting it happen.

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"im going to host a small get together this friday at hotel in port jefferson i have a couple coming and another interested. Maybe a single women as well. please let me know if youd like to join. "

- Posted by the same person who made the OP, less than 24 hours after saying he's never met anyone from the site.

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my plans are still not totally set yet, but yes I at this point do still plan on heading up there end of March :)

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Seduction, sometimes the race isn't won by the swift but he who endures to the end. We all started off somewhere. Granted, he started off on the wrong foot but hey, you never know!

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Poor MILLBS92, that boy *ain't* never coming back to the forums!

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millb, your profile looks better today but it is still ALL about you and your satisfaction. Take a long look at what south vegas couple wrote earlier in this thread and reflect on how it applies to you.

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speaking of single males with all the right traits...

hello handsome Jax

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Folks, it isn't that difficult.

Have a positive, friendly attitude.

Don't have any expectations. It sets you up for failure.

Make yourself available and remember that people have lives outside of swinging so they may not be able to play when it's convenient for you.

Make friends with people, whether you want to play with them or not, because they may help you find opportunities you might not find by yourself.

Don't be an asshole.

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Yes it is hard to crack into the lifestyle as a single male. You have to be willing to spend some time, and yes some money. Try to find some house parties that are single male friendly, or go out and have dinner with a couple and meet them.

And please loose a little of the frustration because yes you do have have to have a female to Swap.... because you have to have four people for a swap. What you want is a little harder to find. Think of it this way you want to meet not only a couple that is open enough sexually to swing, but one that wants to mainly satisfy the female. Because really what are you doing for the male? Letting him watch?

So don't try to rush things, treat them like a date after all you have to entice two people to take you to bed not just one. Make sure you SHOW UP, you would not believe the number of times single males and females flake out and don't show up. Also we had one single male want to come to some of our events and was getting pissed when nothing happened. I ask him what his technique was and he said he was aggressive... I told him to try Charming... it worked for him.

Good Luck and Hope this helps.

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SouthVegas, in my experience a lot of men view oral as foreplay, very little foreplay sometimes, and either a man really "loves" to do this or he or she doesn't know what the fuck really to do. So, when men go on and on about how great they are in this area, I think, oh shit, not another one....LOL. I get myself off a lot via masturbation because I've never cum from the inside. I love porn! It has been my salvation on many occasion.

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