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TOPIC: The Bullshit
Created by: MILLBS92
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Apparently youth is not appreciated on this site, you have to be old and have to bring a women along with you for swaps in order to have any fun on this site or even get the opportunity to meet others. No I dont want to go to a club to meet you, No I dont want to contribute $100 to possibly have sex. Im not desperate, like my profile says im just looking for a good time, and new experiences.. all i hear about is the "lifestyle" and how open everyone is.. I have yet to meet one couple or single female on this site.
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As a single I do well, perhaps not on or with sls, but with another site.
What I do care about is friendship first, then play if it happens, *but* what I do not want and care about is disrespect, in which I receive plenty of.
When I talk to you it is not about sex it is about us , we need to become friends first, if you do not want that! if sex only just say so.
I am very easy to get along with but I am very open and str8 forward, just the way I am.
Oh by the way I am getting it 2 night are you. SB1
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Sav is spot on.

Hmm. It's bullshit that I don't want to meet someone in a one-on-one situation where I may feel pressured? Where I might have to outright reject someone if we don't click? It's bullshit because we would just like to carry on with our lives and do the things that we enjoy and seek that electric magnetism of chemistry?

If you don't want to spend $100.00, that is your right. If I don't want to make a special date with someone who hasn't made my panties wet with his pictures nor his words, that's my right. And no, we have not had any contact.
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Sav,
I think your posting was spot on .
Howell MI
 
 
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To the OP your profile is nice but by your post here its easy to tell its your attitude. Trust me the woman and the couples on here don't need you for sex they are having great sex themselves and they even have sex with others at times. Most people on here WANT a good time, just like you claim you want. So go to the clubs go to swingers events meet people and have a good time. Chance are, once you start doing that you may even have sex after the good time.

good luck to you!
Clarksburg WV
 
 
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Mais non! Quelle horreur!
Chesapeake VA
 
 
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s4t,,, pity poo, be nice or you may get another block ,,, LOL.
Newmarket Canada
 
 
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I don't understand why a young guy can't hook up with couples, we love it and I the male am always on the look out for a young guy in good shape to pleasure my wife. The biggest problem we seem to have is that young guy or single guys are a bit pushy. We like to take our time and get to know them through emails and then chats. After we feel comfortable we will talk on the phone and if she likes what she hears we will set up a meeting.
Just be patient and you will have fun in the Lifestyle.
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I agree with toptim. I (male) was lightly involved in the LS when I was single, and experienced an initial frustration with the "stigma" that single guys get. But I found that patience, respect and courtesy go a long way; and by keeping expectations low, you make some good friends whether you're playing with them or not. I was fortunate to meet two couples with whom I had occasional playtime and we became good friends all around. While my wife and I don't actively seek out single guys here, we're open to MFM play, and should a nice guy come along (that she's hot for, of course;) it's all good.
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Dude knows hats..... but doesn't seem to have a toque!
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