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Millbs, I just read your profile and was surprised to find the exact same complaint in your first paragraph as the question you posted on this thread. It definitely would not draw me in since all it does is show how frustrated you are. When I seek people to meet and possibly have sex with, I look for someone who is positive, fun, and interesting. I'm not here to listen to or help you deal with your baggage. Your profile doesn't give me anything to like, other than your pictures. Yeah, you ARE cute, but there needs to be something more.

BTW-why do you have a duplicate of your rock climbing pic?
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Umm, dropping cash with a guarantee of sex is called prostitution.

While clubs or house parties often cost and may not prove fruitful right away, they are a great way to meet people and get you known in the areas circles. Meet and greets are usually free or cheap to get into, and are also a great way to become known.

Good luck.
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In his defense, I don't think he has a problem spending money but he doesn't want to ripped off at parties just to attend with no guarantee that he's even going to get any action. I had a friend who dropped a load of cash and...nothing. Folks have been known to take advantage.
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MILLBS,

Welcome to SLS forums.

Patience my hai wearing friend, patience.

Having said that, you do need to part with some cash one way or another. Swinging, is very much like any other "date" like scenario. People don't just jump into bed. They enjoy spending an hour or two getting to know you and seeing if you click. I can appreciate someone who doesn't enjoy the *chaos* of a party or a club. But you have to be prepared to spend some money.
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PG were you out too late last night? lol

And to the OP if you don't want to go to a club why don't you agree to meet for dinner? It is cheaper than the club and everyone can figure out if there is attraction or compatibility. We have played with younger SM's and it worked out just fine but we have also run in to SM's that are creepy.

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Please don't be so hard on him. He just got here. I sent him some unsolicited advice "Outside The Forums," which I hope will be helpful and it's not because he likes black women...LMAO!
Vero Beach FL
 
 
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Right behind you PG...
Youngstown OH
 
 
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David once upon a time I used to respond to post like his with helpful advice. Today, I'm not feeling like sls's dear Abby. There are 100 threads like this started by Single Males of all ages. All my dear abbying was used up all ready.

Come on Nic, lets go fuck.

PG {who is feeling rather blunt and to the point today}
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THIS IS OUR YUNGER GEEN POOL CANT WAIT THANK SBOUT IT
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