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tim im with you......cincy - skirt= awesome

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We follow the "go with what feels good" rule.

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pirate girl - I'm there with you. When we're playing with a SM, the "new guy" seems to get a lot more of my attention, and for all the reasons you mentioned. Hubby is okay with it because at the end of the night, I always go home with him.

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60% of the time it works all the time!

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Mrs. Cincy, how about some pics with no skirt? LOL

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Hmm...I do need to take some new pictures. Now where did I put that plaid skirt?

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My wife loves to orchestrate my girl friend and i. We usually end up going the whole distance while the wife helps and plays.....when she leaves , ( or falls asleep) the wife and go at it..and if i'm too tired...wife and i go at it in the morning. Then again, We've been in the lifestyle 20 years and are used to a sf with us. We once had a sf live with us for 5 years....( yes life was and still is good )

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"If I have to do math in the middle of a threesome ain't nobody gonna be happy"

Hmmm Cincy, topless, pigtails, plaid mini (around the waist of course), chewing on a pencil top, those tit glasses on the tip of her nose, B's arms around her waist, while she's doing math!?!?

I'm happy with the visual! Heck you can have 100%, fuck those stingy 80/20 bastids!

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"When I have been the extra guy joining a couple, it always seems she is paying more attention to me but I assume that is because I am new or a change from the usual"

this is the way it usually plays out with us, not that my husband gets ignored by any stretch of the imagination. But usually the SM gets a bit more of my attention (at least if I'm enjoying playing with him) because I have limited time to play with the SM (and may have waited a while for the opportunity), and yes I get to play with my man all the time. And I know my man likes watching me with another man.

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Since the "central" in an MFM is the female she is getting 100% of the attention of the "primary" and "secondary" participants. How she chooses to distribute her attention to the others is likely based on how much she is enjoying each of them. When I have been the extra guy joining a couple, it always seems she is paying more attention to me but I assume that is because I am new or a change from the usual.

Of course, this dynamic changes in an MMF where the males now interact with each other and there may be times when the female is not the center of attention. Since I have no personal experience in this area I would defer to the bi guys who enjoy this type of play to elaborate.

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