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TOPIC: Talking dirty during a 3-some or moresome
Created by: Foxylady66
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I enjoy talking dirty during sex and wonder if women like it as well as men. I love to tell the men to eat pussy or suck cock or tell men to fuck my wife etc.

Some men apprecite it and I have found that one woman encourages me to talk dirty and talks dirty herself. How do others feel about this?

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For reference, this is the male half of the couple writing here. There is no way that I want a woman to think that I'm demeaning her or being "disrespectful". That attitude is just not me. Even during passionate moments with my wife, I really don't use demeaning terms and language. But Dirty talk? yes!!! There is still a lot of room for erotic conversation. I suppose it gets down to communication. First meetings are pretty much "shut up and have a good time". But being an easy communicator in other areas of my life, I would love to use my language talents to allow both of us to add that extra dimension to sex. I'll suggest an example: What if you say someone is "a naughty girl"? A woman who thinks that I'm a pervert would immediately be turned off. But someone who understands that this is just part of erotic play, might come back with her own sexy responses. I love women but like many men, we have so much to learn about (and from) them! :)

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We've been together 20 years and it took me a long time to get comfortable with wife's desire for me to be verbal during sex. It felt awkward and contrived for me. I felt I was demeaning her. Learned along the journey that whatever increases her "O" is good and now it is part of the fun, especially in a threesome, moresome.

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I agree it depends on the person, the comfort level and how they sound. If it sounds too ridiculous I'll start laughing which can be a mood killer, but still fun. During one swap the other female wasn't talking dirty, but was actually encouraging me. Which I have no problem hearing that I'm doing a great job, lol.

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Dirty talk can be hilarious!

"Your pussy smells funny."

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I vastly prefer lighthearted sex liberally sprinkled with laughter. I'm not very good at serious, quiet sex. Dirty talk is well and good but if we are not laughing someone's doing it wrong. A well-timed laugh line is a big turn on for me.

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Depends if she's laughing with you or laughing at you.

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"it makes me laugh harder, and then your penis shrinks"

Laughing has the opposite effect on my cock. There's a hotwife in Baton Rouge who prepares for our dates by practicing punchlines. No joke.

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My wife loves dirty talk during sex its a big turn on for her. The more you talk the harder and more times she cums.

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Like anything else, it is all in knowing your partner, reading the signals and timing.

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I have to really know you because if I dont and you start to dirty talk I will end up laughing so hard at those 70's porn lines I will laugh you off the bed. And I cant recover because the look on your face is so stunned it makes me laugh harder, and then your penis shrinks and we may as well say our goodbyes and shake hands goodnite.

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