Single men, WTF: Swingers Discussion 1780161071

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User Details are only visible to members.	Thick, your kind of attitude is the right kind of attitude. Along those guys, I offer this advice: 1. Since it's the lady who is the one who says yes or no, and she won't make a decision unless you put up a nice picture she can study, include a nice pic, because, no Pic, no decision. And no decision means get lost. 2. Since we know what you want, you don't need to give us a sales pitch. 3. If you've done your homework, you'll understand what we would like, so don't waste your time if that doesn't sound good to you. 4. For Christs sake, don't brag about ANYTHING! 5. Just put up a nice pic or two, and say we look very interesting to you, and you hope we'll check your profile and if interested, make contact. It's simple.
Wilmington DE			Username hidden (328 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ive read some of the posts.Being a single parent,full custody,nothing against the MOM.I would have to think.That respecting the couple,and knowing what the couple wants is the single males place.I hope that one day I will be a couple,looking for single males :) But until that day.I am just a person.And my actions and kindness will go along way in the lifestyle.I hope everyone is having a pleasant night. I want to ad one neg.I once met someone who wanted break the marriage oath.That was a huge mistake,and I was played.That will never happen again.That was years ago.Very uncool and had me very concerned.Have a nice night everyone
Long Pond PA			Username hidden (130 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sed It does and I totally agree, Sometimes you have to get straight to the point so some of us can understand, No one should have to change or go out of their comfort zone for anyone. The point I'm trying to make is seek out the type of people who match what you are looking for and those who are looking for what you have to offer. And pestering those who don't just because you see a pretty picture. We've meet with couples where there was now way we would be a match,and it just makes for a bad time. We've met couples who where things came close and we've played, it was ok but most we don't even remember. THEN there are the times when every thing falls into place, those are the times memories come from. We've came to the point a few yrs ago that quality was truly better than quantity and that we would rather spend time together then go out and meet with someone where there wasn't a good chance we would be a match. and if we wanted quality we were going to have to but a lot more work into the process of choosing who we were going to meet.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2191 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Can one be a truly altruistic fucker?" altruisic: showing unselfish concern for the welfare of others... ... so I say yes, ....and a good one at that! ;) I think there is a thin line between being a selfless and selfish lover and balancing it well makes the best sex. ...or if you take turns, that works out well too. ;) Only being one or the other could be a problem.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I personally have a real problem with men who will make a statement such as: 1- I know my place in the land of swinging. 2- I realize that I'm a mere third wheel in the equation. 3- My job is to do whatever the couples want. Ummm no, you go on and find those couples. We're not a match. I hope that it clarifies my stance.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12268 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks, Seduction. Let me clarify an interesting point you brought up: Fucking as altruistic because I believe I may be guilty of this at times. Let me explain-I have my own sexuality like anyone else. For example, I lean towards being sexually dominant and I'm not much into kink aside from exhibitionism and cuckhold. I don't care for anal (but I'll do it and actually most things and really get into it for a partner-alas my big point of fucking as altruistic) but I'll never eat anyone's ass (my personal limitation). So you brought up a point about men who are here for their own desires but put window dressing on it by saying they're there to service couples and to please, implying subordination of one's personal preferences when playing. But what if one's primary purpose is to sexually satisfy another and that takes priority of my own particular favorite activities? Because quite often, although I lean towards being sexually dominant, I will be submissive because it matters more to me to please my partner and be a good lover than getting off for the night on what I want to do. I love to be highly regarded by my partners which means happily doing things their way at times. But then if being a completely considerate, compromising lover goes hand in hand at getting me off harder, one could successfully argue that, in effect, I am being a completely self-serving lover even in my submissive state as explained/described above. Can one be a truly altruistic fucker?
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I've been contacted by the female of the couple more times than not. At first, it shocked me, but for the most part they pretty much all said they do the searching because they know what they want. And I'm just fine with that!
Memphis TN			Username hidden (796 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sweettart-I see what you are saying, but it sounds as if the poster has modified what she and her partner are looking for with the passing of time. If you have grown more open to single men and you've turned a slew of them down prior, you probably turned down a whole crop of them that you might probably take today. And that holds true enough for me as well. A woman/couple who aren't exactly my cup of tea otherwise might have more appeal if I've been out of commission for a while for whatever reason but you are quite correct and I understand what you mean. If you told someone "no" before, there was probably a reason for it. I guess I'm talking about 'borderline' situations,lol.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	How would a man or anyone be devaluing their self worth by not writing to some one who is clearly not interested in their qualities. If I went to a restaurant and ordered my steak rare and the waitress brought it to me medium , I wouldn't want it,no matter how good she claims it might be, I want what I ordered, the way I ordered it. The same thing goes when we go through the trouble to lay out what we are looking for. We want what we are looking for and nothing else, and willing to wait for it to come along. So if that's not what you have to offer why try and bring it to OUR table. Not saying what you may have to offer isn't good it's just not what we ordered.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2191 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Males that have respect for themselves and know their self worth are the unusual scenario in the swing arena. " Or if they do, they don't remain single males for very long unless by choice ;)
East Fishkill NY			Username hidden (2772 post)

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