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User Details are only visible to members.	spanky, I agree with you in regard to the sub/dom and natural state. I have tried to be domme. It is so far from my natural state, usually when I DO try to be domme I end up laughing my ass off because I look ridiculous. Its hilarious. In the office I am type A in control alpha female. In the bedroom I feel like a complete idiot trying to give commands. Hmm. When you have 2 people who are in their natural state though.....thats some really, really good fucking.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sure you will have fun!!! enjoy! ...sorry about the long week tho. lol.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	kinddr-I agree! I think it's a little different for the boys though because of performance issues. I have a hot fuck session prepared for this weekend with a favorite who wants to change things up and try some things such as getting double stuffed, being on top, etc, stuff we don't usually do or have never done. So in preparation, I am depriving myself of any relief until the weekend, preparing myself the best I can so that deliver in the manner that she pleases. And trust me, being submissive I will be having plenty of fun I am sure.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"Let me clarify (because I'm not long-winded enough,lol)." LOL ...now now, what's a couple of paragraphs amongst friends ...but you do make me google alot of word definitions! ;) ...aren't most 'good' sexual partners like that? (or shouldn't they be?) ...give and take, your turn, my turn. ... let the more dominant moment live on with whomever has the feeling at the time? visa versa with submissive. Your way this time, maybe my way next time... etc... Then again... I am probably comparing this discussion to my experience as a couple, so maybe there's a different component for SM that I am not realizing. Anyway.... keep pleasing your partners and get pleasure yourself, ...that's the whole point! ~ Right Fun? lol
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	kinddrag--oh for sure I like to do my personal choices. Let me clarify (because I'm not long-winded enough,lol). I tend to be sexually dominant. That is my normal disposition, I enjoy steering the ship. For example, being on top, controlling the rhythm, positioning, duration, certain activities, etc. However, once in a while, I get with a sexually dominant woman. We both can't steer the ship, so when we start to go at it, it soon hits me that she likes to dominate, I acquiesce and let her lead. And when it hits me, I am silent as I let the energy shift because I don't want to fuck with anyone's head. I just do my best to fall into the passive role as I believe she would like me to based on my interpretation of our combined energy. However, quite often, when I meet a woman, she likes me to lead (or at least doesn't seem to mind). This is the best result for both of us for sure and where I personally have the most fun. In these situations, I steer and instinctively get us to where I feel we both jointly want to go. I like to direct and I do best with sexually submissive women. But I have had terrific times being dominated. I just fall more passive when she wants to dominate because to me (being primarily an altruistic fucker) her satisfaction takes precedence over what I prefer to do sexually. And to me it is of utmost importance to never let on that you'd rather do something else if you want to be regarded as a good lover (check out the final sentence of my profile).
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh... I don't think Mother Theresa is happy to be here... lol! Let's just stick with Spanky, no? I sort of thought Sed's description of statements that men say that she doesn't like, is different than what you were describing yourself as, until you said this... "(which further means doing all activities to the best of my abililty that my partner wants me to do without letting on I'd rather do other things)" You don't always 'not let on you'd rather do other things' right? Your desire to please others may be stronger than pleasing yourself, but you do enjoy being pleased as you would like ... sometimes ... dont you?
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I try not to overthink this stuff. Just do what you like, with people you like and who like you.
San Quentin CA			Username hidden (8604 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction--I totally see where you're coming from. Privately (again, on the forums I tend to be a little more candid) when I meet couples, I would not necessarily be so forthcoming about my Mother Theresa approach to fucking (as expressed by your 3 example statements by single guys) because it reeks of pandering insincerity and totally conflicts with my true belief that swinging ought to be a mutualistic relationship amongst all the participants. That is, although I'm always glad when a couple/woman want to meet me, I don't regard anyone doing anyone a favor, we all presumably want this sexual connection to happen. And even though your 3 examples sort of reflect how I feel, it's because it comes back to my being an altruistic fucker as a part of my innate self and individuality, not because I'm so grateful someone might want to fuck or some view that men should be or feel like some sort of replaceable commodity in the swinging community. To me swinging is about everyone's mutual satisfaction including mine. It just so happens that because I'm an altruistic fucker, mutual satisfaction to me primarily entails sexually satisfying my partner (which further means doing all activities to the best of my abililty that my partner wants me to do without letting on I'd rather do other things). So it all works out very well in the end for everyone anyway.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Kinddrag--yeah, I agree! And I hope I don't annoy Seduction to say it but I would classify myself as an altruistic fucker (at least SOME of the time,lol). but as an analogy, let's use Mother Theresa (God bless her, I'm sure she's proud to be making our forum). Mother Theresa didn't do good works to get into heaven. She did them because she wanted to do them. It fulfilled something within her which was reward enough. Now some jaded individuals would decry her saying, "well then there you go! She wasn't such a perfect individual if she did good things only to make herself feel good inside..." But to criticize someone for having a selfless nature is superflous, much ado about nothing and ridiculous I would think. Same point with my altruistic fucker point. I say one can (and ought to be) an altruistic fucker (at least sometimes) so everyone wins. You don't have to always be an altruistic fucker but being the Mother Theresa of fuckers at least semi-frequently can pay off in all ways and it should as a part of karma.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Rdy2--maybe your computer is trying to tell you something (as in "you need to meet up with Spanky!"). Sexy--it's a fine, almost indiscernable line between telling the truth and bragging I'm discovering. One thing about me is that I don't lie or misrepresent myself and my capabilities (it goes hand in hand with my also being a moral/ethical fucker) but I'm finding out that it's probably better to let my prospects find out about my talents when we meet and let my photos speak for themselves. I'm probably a little more candid and bawdy on the forums for a little comic relief effect and also because I'm a little more relaxed since I'm not necessarily trying to meet up with anyone on the forums.
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