SwingLifeStyle Swingers Personal Ads. | SwingLifeStyle Swingers Clubs
Busy Swingers Forum
Everything you always wanted to know about swingers.
Create A Free Account|
|
TOPIC: Single men, WTF
|
|
|
Start
51 to 60 of 484
End
|
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Because it is what people 'are', right? ...not what they do.
|
||
Kunkletown PA |
Username hidden
(2981 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Sed, isn't dominant or submissive more about mindset and who is in control of the playtime, than sexual positions? That's what I've come to understand from what I've read. What Mr. Scandle and I do, with me on top, is an equal sharing. It could be changed to sub/dom if I ordered him to lay back while I climbed on top OR if he ordered me to climb on top. Right?
|
||
Sheboygan Falls WI |
Username hidden
(6938 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
When I put on an apron and do the chores am I being submissive?
|
||
Avondale LA |
Username hidden
(4496 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Finally, someone brought up a great point. Being on top while fucking is not a dominant make, just like being on the bottom is no submissive make. I just don't understand such ignorance. Furthermore, a personal pet peeve, improper usage of terminology, domme, or dominate to describe what people do. How much more illiterate/ignorant can people get. I see it in the BDSM fora consistently.
|
||
Colts Neck NJ |
Username hidden
(12196 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Well I think of that as just a position.
When I think of dom/sub, I think of it as one person telling or directing another person, to do something (s) in particular, or being the one in control of the sex events, and the other person willingly (or laughingly, lol) adhering to it. (I dont know if 'adhering' is the word I wanted but I think you can get my point) Am I wrong? What would side by side be ...sub/sub? lol |
||
Kunkletown PA |
Username hidden
(2981 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Spanky seems to think so. I disagree.
|
||
Sheboygan Falls WI |
Username hidden
(6938 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
...does just being on top really mean your being dom?
|
||
Kunkletown PA |
Username hidden
(2981 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
I don't see myself as a domme but prefer being on top because of my physical response. Other positions are fine, but 9 times out of 10 I end up in the cowgirl position, freely bouncing away while looking into my husband's eyes, and loving every minute of it!
|
||
Sheboygan Falls WI |
Username hidden
(6938 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
" usually when I DO try to be domme I end up laughing my ass off because I look ridiculous. Its hilarious. "
----- omg Shelly...I laugh 'before' I try ...I just cant do it either. I even laugh when 'he' is 'very' dom... (I said 'very') ...or I say, "I'm not fucking doin that!" I am not versatile at all. :( lol! |
||
Kunkletown PA |
Username hidden
(2981 post)
|
||
User Details are only visible to members.
|
Thanks, kinddrag.
Lost--yeah, I know what you mean. I know friends who have absolutely no ability to reverse roles-they just are completely unable to switch mindset and are totally lost trying to. Sounds like you have this issue. I am versatile enough though to switch things around and still enjoy with good success but even so there is nothing like being in your element/zone with someone who totally compliments you sexually. I imagine there are many individuals that equally enjoy being dominant and submissive. Lucky them! |
||
Saint Clair Shores MI |
Username hidden
(228 post)
|
||
|
Start
51 to 60 of 484
End
|
TOPIC: Single men, WTF
|