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User Details are only visible to members.	Your welcome, glad you asked. So I decided I am not going to 'study' the previous posts, lol, I really hate doing that and don't really know how some can even do it as often as they do. And I'm not goint to count how many posts are made about something either. I completely agree the subject of true BDSM does belong in it's own group, it's complicated, and obviously different for many, on some levels. (or different for some, on many levels) The conversation was started because we were using the words dom/sub, and then some of us asked questions about it, and some were nice enough to give a 'condensed enough' answer. If anyone wants to argue that answer or now ...the definition of true BDSM, there 'is' a whole group to do that in. My point still is, that those words can be used in all sorts of subjects because they are adjectives. If you spell one of them incorrectly, it is a verb. If I say I am submissive, or a SM feels he is dominant, or likes to dominate, ...it does not mean we think we are into BDSM, and can still be an accurate discription of ourselves. So perhaps its a good idea to let this thread get back to Single men, WTF, ...altho ...I am still partial to the good things about SM's... ;)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you KD! I appreciate the clarification! -M
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12187 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh, Sed, I thought you were right to suggest the BDSM group was the better venue to discuss true BDSM... shoot... late for my cardio. ugh.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No No Sed... I didn't think it was you at all, I was getting that impression from someone else posting. I don't have time to look thru all the posts right now, but I will try to later to explain my last post better if need be. To no one in particular, I just dont think the original use of the words dom/sub here in this thread, was meant towards pure BDSM, yet those words could still be considered accurate in different ways.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As to the rest of your posting regarding true dominance and submission, this isn't the venue. I'd be more than happy to discuss it in BDSM fora. Dearest KD... The above is my statement, did you by any chance get confused and thought that I told anyone to stop talking about an unrelated topic?
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12187 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Law of unintended consequences sir, you've run into someone here that knows better (on your 'Twue Way' (TM) bullshit....puhleeze) and is willing to say so. Because I refuse to discuss an unrelated topic in here does not mean that you know better, it means that I don't want to talk about it, certainly with someone who is obviously not as knowledgeable as he assumes to be. As a self proclaimed "dominant" certainly, you should have enough control over your emotions to not whine, at least not publicly. Control yourself, you think that you can :). I wish you luck in regaining control of yourself.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12187 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Every single thread gets derailed with all sorts of different topics at any given time. I think whoever said that 'trying' to understand BDSM would be better off in the BDSM group first, was right to direct it there. But that doesn't mean anyone needs to tell anyone ...that to continue a little conversation about being dominant or submissive in the bedroom has no business being in this thread or any other thread. Personally, it is a fact that my husband's personality is more dominant than mine, and is also so in the bedroom. Just because those are our personalities, does not mean we are into BDSM, yet we could still use those words. People into 'true' BDSM do not own those words ...and they can still be accurate in describing other things. I also think that describing one's self as dominant in the bedroom, 'NOT' being into BDSM, call also be called 'more assertive', 'aggressive', etc... etc..
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bukkake.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	22 hours ago: "Finally, someone brought up a great point. Being on top while fucking is not a dominant make," And though you did not begin this subject within this thread you DID chime in (above) within the hour (and within 10 posts) and grace us with your extensive and categorical knowledge of BDSM and the only 'Twue Way' (TM) that anyone can practice it (do I need to quote you there too?). Seriously? You may want to see if your own ducks are lined up before you take the arrogant and dismissive 'you are derailing the thread' tack. I imagine most are too lazy to call you on your bullshit, but I make a hobby of this sort of thing. Law of unintended consequences sir, you've run into someone here that knows better (on your 'Twue Way' (TM) bullshit....puhleeze) and is willing to say so. Best of the day to you
East Fishkill NY			Username hidden (2772 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Declarative statement... "As to the rest of your posting regarding true dominance and submission, this isn't the venue. I'd be more than happy to discuss it in BDSM fora." I did NOT state that YOU had made 20 posts... "I'm curious as to why after more than 20 posts about D/s in THIS forum you would suddenly declare we are off subject?" Nice try though.... Do others actually buy this BS?
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