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I'm sure others have! {wink}

Mcallen TX
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Hey Inked,

I have wanted to say this for a while but just never did. So, I am going to say so now. I love reading your posts. You come across as very positive, easy going, happy, and knowledgeable. I don't know where all you post but in the threads that I have seen you always come across in a positive light.

I haven't peeked at your profile (I may do that after writing this) because you are quite a distance away from us and the likelihood of us meeting is so small. That and I have no idea if you would be interested in me, so why find out that you would be someone I would absolutely want to get to know when it may not happen. :( Such is the world of preferences and swinging. Wanting what you can't have.........not knowing and being fearful of making that attempt.

But nonetheless, you present yourself in a great manner. That manner that lets others know that single males have more interesting facts about them than just their abs, chests, and cocks. Men like you make it more difficult for the other single men who do not try to present themselves as a whole being rather than a few body parts to play with and discard.

To present yourself as human, with flaws, bits of perfection, wisdom, and confusion is the least we can hope for and the most we can offer. To which you do so well.

Sophia

P.S. I do have a list of Single Men from the forums that I have come to admire, desire, and respect. You are firmly placed on that list. Hope others have added you to their list too!

Hendersonville NC
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I really have to say that many single guys on here have given a considerable amount of insight into the problems on their side.

I just wish the many that have sent us emails would have read the forum posts or at least our profile to figure out the best way to communicate with us.

Like Livewire said, if you want to meet the woman then make an effort to get to know the women. Otherwise, the chances of an actual encounter goes down.

"A little time, a little consideration, makes all the difference in the world." Winnie the Pooh, (A.A. Milne).

Sophia

Hendersonville NC
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New SF here reading all the for a to gain as much knowledge as I can. I have to give a huge Thanks to Mrs. LWC for saying what I was thinking about meeting up with people. It's all about the mental connection and trust for me too. Not a huge risk taker but once the connection is there I am all in.

After reading through this entire thread I sure wish I lived closer to some of the other SM's out there.....or at least traveled more!

Anchorage AK
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Kurt.......................Swoon! Nice to see your picture...I mean you again . lol

Mrs Sav

Anniston AL
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As, I think, the same as most people, I like to be treated with respect and courtesy. I do the same for those I chat with and meet. A few annoyances I must endure: no reply to an email or chat request, plan to meet then back out, after meeting no response to email. If you are not interested in me for whatever reason, there is a respectful way to verbalize it and I'll know not to bother you again. Thanks.

Cleveland OH
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Not wanting to sound like a princess, but, at a minimum, I'd at least like to be able to read your profile. :^)

Seriously, though, your expectations are perfectly reasonable and that is really what is most important that get respected and spoken to. One way to hedge your bets is by seeing to what degree potential companions will participate in rapport building. SLS email, SLS chat, cell phone text messages or voice conversations are all ways to see to what degree they are willing to share things about themselves and want to find out more about you. If folks are difficult to engage along these lines, responses are clipped or harried, you'll know.

Hope that this helps.

Daniels MD
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Thank you, kinddragon.

If we can't treat each other with a little respect*** why are we trying to meet people?

*** I understand there is a time and place for some people to do away with respect and just grudge fuck the hell out of each other. Generally speaking that isn't the "norm" for most folks, though.

Herndon VA
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I understand where you are coming from MrP, a little self deprecation is fine but the term "favor" makes me cringe. If you flip it around, would you want a guy to say he was doing your wife a favor by being with her?

It's that golden rule thing again....

Youngstown OH
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like the pure jerk that i am.............BS

Kingston TN
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