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TOPIC: SMs, How would you like to be treated
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Triad, it sounds like you have a lot of expectations ... expectations that your emails deserve to be read, expectations that others will see you as educated (oh btw, there is a spell check function here that would help immensely to enhance that perception), expectations that everyone should communicate with you regardless of whether they are interested or not. Take a deep breath, step back and look at the lifestyle from the perspective of couples who receive, at times, a dozen or so messages every day, mostly from single males. We try to respond politely to all but there are times when it is overwhelming (especially when our interest in SMs is only once or twice a year). If you make this experience less about what you expect and more about what others want, you might find your niche here.

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Great first post, Triad. I got up from my desk and changed hats; I put on a baseball hat, a wool watch cap, and a cowboy hat. Each time, I reread your post, trying to not have it sound angry, but I wasn't successful.

You've been a member of SLS for 1 day.

Though you didn't ask, my advice would be to get over to Walmart and look for their 2 for 1 Thick Skin Sale. Without it, you're in for a long, bumpy, angry ride, or a quick exit.

Remember, this is supposed to be fun.

TL

Oh, and about that whole syntax thing, your post has 1 misspelled word and you ended another sentence with a preposition.


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I would like to be treated with the same respect afforded to couples and single females. My queries are polite, informative and my syntax lets people know I am at leadt educated. However, I am snubbed by the majority of couples I write to. Not even a response to say no! I don't care how many rude people you've encountered! When you read my messages, they do not deserve to be ignored. That's my two cents for what it's worth.

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mufflvr: At least they sent a reply, that's considerate. I'll usually write back to say that I appreciated getting a response.

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Welcome to the forum mufflvr. A reply of "not compatible" or "not interested" is all that needs to be said. They are telling you to move on so don't let it bother you. Rejection is part of the game, if it offends you to have someone say no, then I suggest you don't send any emails.

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I have received replies in the pass that read "we don't think we are compatible at this time". I wanna say, "what time would we be compatible?" "I've got all evening". I like to make nice comments to single ladies and couples that have sexy pictures of the wife. I get replies on how they're not interested etc. Just because I try and be nice by making an observation doesn't mean I want to jump in bed that moment. Well, I do but I'm not that stupid. Take the compliment and say thank you and if they like my profile etc. The balls in their court or my balls might eventually be in her mouth. It's that simple.

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I try to treat others as I want to be treated. I have a sense of humor so I try to throw some flirty wit into each email I send out. I would generally like the same courtesy even if someone is not interested. I do not hold grudges or take things personally. Unless someone is rude for no reason.

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With respect. Nothing more and nothing less. I fully read profiles and know who I can make overtures to and I expect them to read mine in kind. So far so good.


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Well I tell you as a single male a lot of couple that are asking to have male to meet with them never even send a reply.and the few that do find out that not all single men are looking to jump on the wife, when I meet with a couple I always ask if I can tought. and I spent my time to get to know both of them.IN my case if I get to swing with them I really trqat the other man with somuch respect as he letting me have his wife to play with, and I treat her with the most repect and never call any names unless she ask me to nasty talk with her.I been know to bring a live plant to meeting them.

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Yup. He's gettin' his Benjamin Button ON!

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