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Now we are back on track... LOL! I love what I do! Bring everyone together with a common interest.

And for the record, I really don't have a problem. Except people judging. I will be around and I am quite the conversationalist aren't I? I think I will go to women talk and politics... lol!

This is a lesson to SM' s stand your ground! See you all around

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I some times wonder if single males * block single males from viewing their profiles like some single females *block couples?

** thick skin is good advice for anyone even looking at the forums *for the record.

Other new dude that is Bi married playing alone with trifold default picture. and name I would never remember.

** you said minority........shut your mouth !! *

FF the narrator....sorry for the delete typo fixes.

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Bashed you? You're going to need thicker skin that that my friend. lol

Here is my post:

"...my take upon reading his profile name is that he is a cheating husband. Your C&P from his profile shows he has an opinion that I would guess very few share. I think most would agree that unfaithful implies breaking a trust which is tantamount in the LS. "

To simplify what I thought was an easy to follow post even more, you call yourself "unfaithful" so my initial reaction is you are unfaithful (IE, a cheating husband) I go on to explain that swinging is essentially the same as being unfaithful and gave your own definition. I suggested that most commited couples would disagree and that trusting each other, even as they shared their partners with others was one of the most important tennants of swinging. Unfaithful is being deceiptful. Swinging is playing with full knowleged of your partner. HUGE difference.

So if that is bashing to you, stay away, FAR away from the politics forum. lol

Oh and I get treated quite well here, thank you!

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For the record, Unfaithful, I am a single male and have been treated very well so far on this site. No one has badgered me (that I know of) or been offended by my name. I've received quite a few compliments (solicited and unsolicited) about my profile from men, women, and couples.

I will say though, your assertion that your profile is open for all to see is false. I tried to view it when you made your first post and I just tried again after reading your post that said anyone can view it.

No matter what your posts say, they are contradictory. I don't know what your profile says but it sounds contradictory to your chosen name, which is, in turn, contradicting the excellent posts you've made regarding respect.

I don't know what to think about you. I appreciate your position and if you choose to define the lifestyle as being "unfaithful" then that's your right. You will fall very heavily into the minority of folks who actually participate in "the lifestyle" but there's nothing wrong with that.

I do have one question, though, how do you treat someone (anyone) with respect if you're being "unfaithful" by not being monogamous. I think that's the issue people are pointing at. How can you be respectful but also unfaithful? The two, by definition, don't coincide.

Anyway, I've said my piece about how I would like to be treated and I think it pretty much falls in line with what most people are saying... the golden rule pretty much applies in all aspects of life.

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Let me get some homework done and I will be there!

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Thanks Livewirecpl!

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*smile* It's all good Un-man not to be confused with Stedman haha

I dropped a ophra joke in case anyone missed it.

New dude you type with ease, drop into some other threads if you get bored. You read well in my book, judge not them that be judged, or something like that. Try the games thread or I dare you to post in the woman's talk thread...haha

Wortweibchen-Liebeswörter Wortweibchen-Liebeswörter

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FF, saves folks from having to scroll down to see my previous post.

:)

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Finger,

I just got home from class and you are still at it ...lol! Thanks for Defending me while I was gone but I think I may have shut this down after the previous post I put up

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Ok I want to wrap this up and bring it full circle. Take note of the name of the topic. As much as some want to label me as a cheater sorry, I cannot help you there!

Topic: SMs, How would you like to be treated?

Now go back to my first post and read up to the last one and this is how a single guy IS treated! I actually write a nice post giving some somewhat good advice and this is what it has come to. No wonder a single cannot catch a break in the LS. In addition, I am not trying to get out there and get notches. I just would like to have a friend in the LS just encase I decided to participate I would not be rude crude and obnoxious. After reading all the responses, I am disappointed in those that judge me based on a name. Take time to get to know a person Kinddragon. You started this nonsense. How many of you actually read my profile? Very few probably, I even opened it up so Nic could read it after he bashed me. Oh yes, I just name-dropped but it is all in the thread. Go read it! For those of you that defended my position while I was in class I thank you! This needs to end and let this be the last post about “UNFAITHFUL”

Now let us get back to the topic especially, after this blast! Now IF I have done something wrong I apologize unlike others will be willing to do. I do expect there will be some consequences afterwards but that is life. This is not the first nor last attack aimed at me.

6 And I heard a voice in the midst of the four beasts say, A measure of wheat for a penny, and three measures of barley for a penny; and see thou hurt not the oil and the wine. 7 And when he had opened the fourth seal, I heard the voice of the fourth beast say, Come and see. 8 And I looked, and behold a pale horse: and his name that sat on him was Death, and Hell followed with him. And power was given unto them over the fourth part of the earth, to kill with sword, and with hunger, and with death, and with the beasts of the earth. Revelations 6:6-8

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