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It would be nice to at least get an answer to emails even to say not interested.And also to decline an i'm request and not just ignore it

Blakely PA
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like the nice single guy that I am....no drama no bs......if im not your piece of cake that's ok ill just move on... :)

Rockport MA
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You are the distraction. I am just mesmerized by You SWGC!

Clarksville TN
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That's all most normal people want is honesty. Being upfront at the first opportunity and not stringing along. No games, either you are or are not interested

Clarksville TN
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VERY nicely put, Mrs. SW.

Mcallen TX
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Honestly? Honesty and manner...I have my ego in check and understand if you aren't interested. Let me know you aren't interested, and I'll never bother you again. But, isn't that what everyone wants?

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I so dislike like having 16 weeks compressed into 5 weeks. So, I see I didn't miss much while I was gone.

@livewirecpl I got it all done and thanks! GPS sucks! Damn 3.0 BS

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Now for a very minor criticism:

Based on your post I would not have expected your profile to be hidden from single males. I would not say as a single male that it's offensive but it is a tad cool to the touch.

And just so I don't leave this thread on a negative note I would like to share my own HR story (partially brought to mind by a much debated profile handle). This was from an article I cut out of a magazine from a HR director's collection of her favorite cover letters: "I am extremely faithful to my current employer, so please do not inform them of my immediate availability."

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Livewire,

Interesting question. In my limited experience I am interested in learning a little about a couple. It just seems like a natural extension of a long term habit of chatting with people I meet. people who are good at talking about themselves and finding out about you too just make for a comfortable enjoyable time.

For that reason I tend to want to chat a little or exchange emails up front. Just so I know that we will be comfortable with each other while we are meeting to size each other up for mutual attraction and compatibility.

At my first meeting I was worried about "getting back on topic" after the enjoyable small talk. remembering that this is a sex site, and that this is why people on here go out on a date, it didn't take too much nerve to politely ask for what I wanted. In fact the lady was very accommodating.

I'm interested in an experience where everyone comes away with a positive feeling. I can't imagine being put off by pleasant small talk or that a man would be shocked that a woman would want that.

My thoughts.

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Whenever I contact anyone, or am contacted by anyone, be it couple, woman or bi man, I am polite, respectful, patient, and cordial, even if their profile and pics don't interest me. That is how I want to be treated. The things that turn me off immediately are crudeness/vulgarity and impatience. Only once ever have I "hooked up" within hours of first contact. It was with a bi married man whom I immediately felt comfortable with. Most of the people I have met face-to-face were couples, women or bi men I chatted with for anywhere from 3 days to 3 weeks. Once mutual desire, comfort levels and limits have been established, I am excited and ready to meet, because I detected the same vibes from my potential partner/partners.

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