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I treat people the way I would like to be treated- with respect.

Atlanta GA
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" Except people judging." The hard reality is that we all judge, every single day we pass by a person and judge . Sometimes correctly , sometimes incorrectly but it is human nature to classify people. People we like, people we dislike, people we feel threatened by, people we think we want to know. We judge power and money, we judge clothes, housing and the car you drive, hell some will pigeon hole you for the state you live in. We judge in the line at the check out, at church and in court rooms. How we present ourselves is the tool we own to tint judgement in our favor. Swingers are no more open minded or less judgmental than the cashier at Quik Trip on a long night shift. Welcome to the forums,

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Anniston AL
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** shut your mouth was typed with the font, funny bold italic FTR :)

Buford GA
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Now we are back on track... LOL! I love what I do! Bring everyone together with a common interest.

And for the record, I really don't have a problem. Except people judging. I will be around and I am quite the conversationalist aren't I? I think I will go to women talk and politics... lol!

This is a lesson to SM' s stand your ground! See you all around

Clarksville TN
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I some times wonder if single males * block single males from viewing their profiles like some single females *block couples?

** thick skin is good advice for anyone even looking at the forums *for the record.

Other new dude that is Bi married playing alone with trifold default picture. and name I would never remember.

** you said minority........shut your mouth !! *

FF the narrator....sorry for the delete typo fixes.

Buford GA
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Bashed you? You're going to need thicker skin that that my friend. lol

Here is my post:

"...my take upon reading his profile name is that he is a cheating husband. Your C&P from his profile shows he has an opinion that I would guess very few share. I think most would agree that unfaithful implies breaking a trust which is tantamount in the LS. "

To simplify what I thought was an easy to follow post even more, you call yourself "unfaithful" so my initial reaction is you are unfaithful (IE, a cheating husband) I go on to explain that swinging is essentially the same as being unfaithful and gave your own definition. I suggested that most commited couples would disagree and that trusting each other, even as they shared their partners with others was one of the most important tennants of swinging. Unfaithful is being deceiptful. Swinging is playing with full knowleged of your partner. HUGE difference.

So if that is bashing to you, stay away, FAR away from the politics forum. lol

Oh and I get treated quite well here, thank you!

Youngstown OH
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For the record, Unfaithful, I am a single male and have been treated very well so far on this site. No one has badgered me (that I know of) or been offended by my name. I've received quite a few compliments (solicited and unsolicited) about my profile from men, women, and couples.

I will say though, your assertion that your profile is open for all to see is false. I tried to view it when you made your first post and I just tried again after reading your post that said anyone can view it.

No matter what your posts say, they are contradictory. I don't know what your profile says but it sounds contradictory to your chosen name, which is, in turn, contradicting the excellent posts you've made regarding respect.

I don't know what to think about you. I appreciate your position and if you choose to define the lifestyle as being "unfaithful" then that's your right. You will fall very heavily into the minority of folks who actually participate in "the lifestyle" but there's nothing wrong with that.

I do have one question, though, how do you treat someone (anyone) with respect if you're being "unfaithful" by not being monogamous. I think that's the issue people are pointing at. How can you be respectful but also unfaithful? The two, by definition, don't coincide.

Anyway, I've said my piece about how I would like to be treated and I think it pretty much falls in line with what most people are saying... the golden rule pretty much applies in all aspects of life.

Herndon VA
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Let me get some homework done and I will be there!

Clarksville TN
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Thanks Livewirecpl!

Clarksville TN
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*smile* It's all good Un-man not to be confused with Stedman haha

I dropped a ophra joke in case anyone missed it.

New dude you type with ease, drop into some other threads if you get bored. You read well in my book, judge not them that be judged, or something like that. Try the games thread or I dare you to post in the woman's talk thread...haha

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