Question for Couples, 1 talking 1 not: Swingers Discussion 2111651061

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User Details are only visible to members.	Okay, let me guess, all the "couples" that have contacted you are free members and probably want you to email some pics off site. Fact is you guys are fresh meat and every cheating husband, perv, and single dude within 500 miles is going to try and trick you into opening pics, chatting, cammiing, emailing, or whatever else they can get away with. They are usually free members with no certs. Start off by blocking free members. Be very wary of paid members that have been on sls over a year with no certs. If you think they might be legit, tell them to meet you at a restaurant close to your house, less than 5 mins away if possible. give them a google voice number and tell them to text you when they get there. Sit at home comfortably in front of the TV until (if) you get a text. Don't be concerned about meeting at a restaurant close to home unless you plan on having sex in a booth. People meet at restaurants all the time, doctors, lawyers and indian chiefs, without raising suspicions. Your post is a textbook example of the cheating husband/perv with a fake profile. Hope you didn't send any pics.... The only chatting you should be doing is in person. Take a weekend off and go to the big city and hit a lifestyle party, you will have a blast and meet some real swingers.
Virginia Beach VA			Username hidden (284 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have it happen all the time, Almost 90% of the so called couples that contact us. Our only set in stone rule is that the ladies talk before we go any father than the first contact. I can count the number of times my wife has called to talk with the female half and she has no Idea who we are, or she says he does all the work and she just meets who every he chooses without looking at the profile or pics. Hard to believe that some men are so stupid as to give out her phone number and then not tell her that my wife will be calling, Or to be so insinuative as to set the love of his life up on a blind date. That's just not our cup of tea.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is Mrs. Dilemma for us is we live in a small town/rural area so often it's over an hour, sometimes almost 3 hours between some of the couples we have talked to. So trying to check we are all on the same page before we drive for disappointment. I'm not one for "taking one for the team" if it just seems hinky.
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We politely decline further communication until the "other" partner is available for us to speak or cam with. We have no problem verifying ourselves and assume if you are being honest neither will you. More oyften than not our request for verification is agreed upon and the poof the original partner disappears and then blocks us. oh well . . .
Du Quoin IL			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The other couple's behavior seems suspicious. We do not text or IM so for us, it's lets meet face to face or nothing at all. This method cuts down the fakes. If you want to get to the bottom of this situation, suggest meeting somewhere for a quick drink or even coffee. Their response will let you know immediately whether they are both involved or not.
Alpharetta GA			Username hidden (1014 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have been having a recurring situation lately where a (supposed) couple will contact us. (Almost always the male 1/2 first) then he will either rarely ever mention the female half in his life or when we all want to talk/chat together (especially when she is bi) it's she is too busy to talk etc . How many other honest couples have run into this issue were one is doing all the talking and either the female half has no interest in talking or is "too busy" to talk to both of us or not talk to my Mrs at all? It tends to give both of us a bad feeling that the male is interested in her and he seems to use his wife as leverage to keep us talking when his Mrs might not truly know he is talking to another couple or just has no interest. Perfect example. Last "couple" we were talking to, the male half would be texting my wife through the day but his wife (that worked at home) or is a SAHM is "too busy" even in the evenings when we'd all be able to chat a bit. He doesn't mention her at all in conversation or anything about me, just about himself or my Mrs. For us, it's imperative for us all to be able to talk, even a little bit. She's never contacted my Mrs & he's never contacted me even tho we all have each others text and IM information. So what do we do if there is uneven communication or 1 in the group is much more interested in the other but really doesn't acknowledge the rest?
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

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