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The proof comes when it comes to meet up time. If both can not be present for a real life meetup, then you have a fake. When it comes to text, chat, email, etc, I am definitely the more active half. I have had more than one or two people question "us" based on that. I never suggest to meet up alone, and always offer my wife's cell number to at least acknowledge that she is real and we are interested together as a couple.

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This is the Mrs. To Losmantes, just to clarify I did NOT say to break off just the female to play. I said the M or F (some peoples schedules make it very difficult for them to play at the same time). If that scenario were to happen, after we had all played together and we were all comfortable we would do the same thing for the other couple if they wanted just a MFF or MFM situation.

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Why would I personally want only couples or just MFM? I am NOT by any means judging what works for other couples. Some just do MFM some Couples and some MFF. If it works for the Male just either having MFM and not getting/asking for MFF more power to that man, and again if that's what works for that couple Bravo to them :) . The few couples we have actually played with lets just say with out so many words.. It's obvious as to why the woman would want another man to join them, Some do it for the pleasure and excitment and then there are others that are.."replacing" what they the other partner is lacking. There's not contesting as to why finding a Single Male is so "Easy" why should it be so hard to find a Single Female. We both have had contact with a Female in a relationship were she made it very clear all she would "Allow" is another Male but MFF was out of the question for there relationship.

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Whoa, this is a whole new wrinkle. If you're looking for a single female, or to break off the female half of a couple, well, you've got about as much chance as the Hoffman's finding gold in Alaska. Stop wasting time chasing unicorns and find some quality couples you both enjoy playing with, or some quality MFM's.

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Mr here. actually the most couples we have had problems with are paid members with Certs . The one we are / had a problem with is Paid and 1 cert. there are photos of the both of them on there profile but when it came time to "talking" the issue we have been having starts all over again. I have no problems if my wife want's to have a single man (and we have talked about it) but when it's damn near impossible for my wife to find a woman for a MFF. Not just a single woman but a woman in general and the Male half of couples shows all the interest but the Female half either has very little to nothing to say or has no interest in communicating it makes it hard for either of us to welcome a single man into our lives. Maybe its eaiser in larger towns to find SM & SF . We thought it was our profile or our photos. Thanks for all the help

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Couples that are new to the site, are free members, and have no certs are assumed to be not real until we know they are. We're OK that many guys do all the site PC work but there always comes a point where we need to know that the wife is involved and is in full agreement with whatever decisions are being made. We present ourselves as "real" and don't have a lot of patience for those who aren't.

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Okay, let me guess, all the "couples" that have contacted you are free members and probably want you to email some pics off site. Fact is you guys are fresh meat and every cheating husband, perv, and single dude within 500 miles is going to try and trick you into opening pics, chatting, cammiing, emailing, or whatever else they can get away with. They are usually free members with no certs. Start off by blocking free members. Be very wary of paid members that have been on sls over a year with no certs. If you think they might be legit, tell them to meet you at a restaurant close to your house, less than 5 mins away if possible. give them a google voice number and tell them to text you when they get there. Sit at home comfortably in front of the TV until (if) you get a text. Don't be concerned about meeting at a restaurant close to home unless you plan on having sex in a booth. People meet at restaurants all the time, doctors, lawyers and indian chiefs, without raising suspicions. Your post is a textbook example of the cheating husband/perv with a fake profile. Hope you didn't send any pics.... The only chatting you should be doing is in person. Take a weekend off and go to the big city and hit a lifestyle party, you will have a blast and meet some real swingers.

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This is Mrs. Dilemma for us is we live in a small town/rural area so often it's over an hour, sometimes almost 3 hours between some of the couples we have talked to. So trying to check we are all on the same page before we drive for disappointment. I'm not one for "taking one for the team" if it just seems hinky.

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We have been having a recurring situation lately where a (supposed) couple will contact us. (Almost always the male 1/2 first) then he will either rarely ever mention the female half in his life or when we all want to talk/chat together (especially when she is bi) it's she is too busy to talk etc . How many other honest couples have run into this issue were one is doing all the talking and either the female half has no interest in talking or is "too busy" to talk to both of us or not talk to my Mrs at all? It tends to give both of us a bad feeling that the male is interested in her and he seems to use his wife as leverage to keep us talking when his Mrs might not truly know he is talking to another couple or just has no interest. Perfect example. Last "couple" we were talking to, the male half would be texting my wife through the day but his wife (that worked at home) or is a SAHM is "too busy" even in the evenings when we'd all be able to chat a bit. He doesn't mention her at all in conversation or anything about me, just about himself or my Mrs. For us, it's imperative for us all to be able to talk, even a little bit. She's never contacted my Mrs & he's never contacted me even tho we all have each others text and IM information. So what do we do if there is uneven communication or 1 in the group is much more interested in the other but really doesn't acknowledge the rest?

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