Question for Couples, 1 talking 1 not: Swingers Discussion 2111651051

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User Details are only visible to members.	losamantes I'm curious as to way you are opposed to a phone call before setting up a met. To us that would be the biggest red flag. It would tell us that it just the male half sitting around with his dick in his hand jacking out to the wife's pics. It would tell use that if we did meet he would have his hands all over my wife like a dog in heat, and his wife would be as disconnected as possable.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	so many fake people.... destroy beautiful game...
Newport News VA			Username hidden (854 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I guess I was confused, I thought you wanted to play with the woman of the couple when then man wasn't there. In any case, as Toledo has said, meeting in person cuts through all the BS. Sounds like you may be spending too much time chatting, emailing and texting. At most it takes us two or three emails to set up a meeting. No phone calls, no texting, and no chatting, and absolutely no picture trading. There should be enough information in a couple's profile to know if you're interested in meeting. If the couple is a fake or flaky they will always have an excuse for not being able to meet and you can move on. When someone wants us to call or chat before we meet, it's always a red flag.
Virginia Beach Westmoreland			Username hidden (288 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We're opposite. Me (the mrs) does all the web surfing, chatting, emailing. I show the mr a profile and he will say "yay" or "nay". Then helps compose the email. But I'm the one doing the typing. And the chatting/texting. If there is mutual interest, we set up for a meet/greet at a local coffee shop or bar (depending on the time of day). Only had 1 couple flake out (and it was "she" doing all the emailing/texting). We know they are real b/c they are regulars at a local club. Figured they re-evaluated our profile and changed their mind, but were too rude to let us know properly (her chat profile stopped showing up and then she ignored a polite ? email). Their loss. mrs svc
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (850 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The proof comes when it comes to meet up time. If both can not be present for a real life meetup, then you have a fake. When it comes to text, chat, email, etc, I am definitely the more active half. I have had more than one or two people question "us" based on that. I never suggest to meet up alone, and always offer my wife's cell number to at least acknowledge that she is real and we are interested together as a couple.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1084 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is the Mrs. To Losmantes, just to clarify I did NOT say to break off just the female to play. I said the M or F (some peoples schedules make it very difficult for them to play at the same time). If that scenario were to happen, after we had all played together and we were all comfortable we would do the same thing for the other couple if they wanted just a MFF or MFM situation.
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Why would I personally want only couples or just MFM? I am NOT by any means judging what works for other couples. Some just do MFM some Couples and some MFF. If it works for the Male just either having MFM and not getting/asking for MFF more power to that man, and again if that's what works for that couple Bravo to them :) . The few couples we have actually played with lets just say with out so many words.. It's obvious as to why the woman would want another man to join them, Some do it for the pleasure and excitment and then there are others that are.."replacing" what they the other partner is lacking. There's not contesting as to why finding a Single Male is so "Easy" why should it be so hard to find a Single Female. We both have had contact with a Female in a relationship were she made it very clear all she would "Allow" is another Male but MFF was out of the question for there relationship.
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Whoa, this is a whole new wrinkle. If you're looking for a single female, or to break off the female half of a couple, well, you've got about as much chance as the Hoffman's finding gold in Alaska. Stop wasting time chasing unicorns and find some quality couples you both enjoy playing with, or some quality MFM's.
Virginia Beach Westmoreland			Username hidden (288 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mr here. actually the most couples we have had problems with are paid members with Certs . The one we are / had a problem with is Paid and 1 cert. there are photos of the both of them on there profile but when it came time to "talking" the issue we have been having starts all over again. I have no problems if my wife want's to have a single man (and we have talked about it) but when it's damn near impossible for my wife to find a woman for a MFF. Not just a single woman but a woman in general and the Male half of couples shows all the interest but the Female half either has very little to nothing to say or has no interest in communicating it makes it hard for either of us to welcome a single man into our lives. Maybe its eaiser in larger towns to find SM & SF . We thought it was our profile or our photos. Thanks for all the help
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Couples that are new to the site, are free members, and have no certs are assumed to be not real until we know they are. We're OK that many guys do all the site PC work but there always comes a point where we need to know that the wife is involved and is in full agreement with whatever decisions are being made. We present ourselves as "real" and don't have a lot of patience for those who aren't.
Southington CT			Username hidden (325 post)

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