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User Details are only visible to members.	This is Mrs. Yes, from the profile the guy wasn't doing a whole lot for me, but I try not to be judgemental because I'm no barbie in any sense either. The lesson I'm taking from this and other experiences is doubt first. That's not normal demeanor, but I'm sharing myself as well as the man I love. I was particularly "struck" by your comment that he wouldn't get within 100 yards of Mrs. Amantes. I'm not sure if that's by your or her choice, but it was VERY true. I won't encourage contact with a couple that the guy catches my eye but the woman doesn't catch my eye for myself or Mr. Fun. LOL We've both enjoyed following the comments and the forums. It's not conversation we can have with vanilla friends. :)
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sorry to hear you got perved, live and learn. Not to put salt in the wound, but this is one of those teaching moments... those guys have only been on sls less than a month and had one sketchy cert involving drinks. Not necessarily a bad thing, but we would have set up a meet right away with no further communication. give them a google voice number to text you if they're going to be late. Of course looking at the pics, there's no way that dude was going to get within 100 yards of Mrs. Amantes.
Virginia Beach Westmoreland			Username hidden (288 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ya gotta remember there are many males on here whose wives don't know they are on. Your BS meter is going off and you may not be hearing it. I think most would call us fairly active. We do something every 3 to 6 weeks and my wife just simply doesn't chat or write to anyone. That's my job, and when you get right down to it I don't hardly ever chat either. only 2 cents worth curt
Pasadena CA			Username hidden (175 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As of 6:45 Central time (11/5) one of the 2 (let me guess who) is "Online" . Looking for the next sucker. Well we at least fell for it.. Face palm
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I pretended to be a couple and leave my phone number if some girl want to call m ? :)
Newport News VA			Username hidden (854 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I, the male, do 100% of the email responses and and IM. Why? It's not her thing. She will read a emails, then profiles etc and ask me to send the response. But make no mistake, we both look at all emails, profiles and if I do happen to IM with a couple she knows everything that was discussed. It's just the way she likes it. Trust me, I wish she would do more online. As far as talking on the phone. Never seen a need. We only give out our number if a met has been set and it's only for if one of us can't make it last minute for some reason. Things do come up but we will never stand someone up without trying to contact them. This may be a deal breaker for some but it's just the way it works for us. In our experience most of the time it's the male half of the couples that do most of the communication with each other but once we meet the women are 100% informed on what was discussed. In person Mrs L is the more out going one and often the life of the party.
Midland TX			Username hidden (409 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with the "cut to the chase" concept. I can be in your area next weekend, name the time and place Losamantes. ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11420 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SweetT, It's just been our experience, that in every case where we've done the phone thing, it's been a waste of time. Everything covered in a phone call can be covered at the restaurant and you have the added benefit of seeing what they really look like. Maybe it's just us, but we've never actually met with anyone we talked to on the phone. Seems like they either want endless conversation or they are new and kind of scared to meet in person. If we get email from someone we might be interested in on, say Wednesday, our reply is something like: We like your profile as well, let's meet Friday at 7. Done and done. No need for further communication until we meet. We live in a large metropolitan area so we pick a restaurant close to home and don't have far to go if it's a dud. Of course the couple contacting us must have a very descriptive profile with open pics and several certs. We have never had a couple no show on us. I oversimplified it a bit, but you get the idea. I don't like to use the word "always", but it always seems that the ones wanting endless chat, phone calls, or email are never going to actually meet. Do what works for you, but in our case we have very little time so we prefer to cut right to the chase.
Virginia Beach Westmoreland			Username hidden (288 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We look at it like this, sure there are no guarantees, but we have why to much to do to wast our time going out to meet a couple where one or the other is not interested from the start.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (2225 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I THINK........I might be completely wrong but Maybe....The male sees a couple that looks interesting but his wife not so much. he want's to keep chatting and maybe she will spark some interest?? guess i'm trying to look for the postive in all of this. We thought a Text/phone communication at least let us know everyone is on the same page before we meet? i'm sure there are women out there that are not really "in too" the life style, they do it because its what the man wants so the least communication she has to do the better??? Over thinking at this point LOL. guess we just cut throught the fat for now on
Wisconsin Dells WI			Username hidden (50 post)

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