Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers: Swingers Discussion 2060131021

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TOPIC: Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers

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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for all the great advice. I have had some chats with the SM and gave him some pointers on what she likes. As far as the DVP, I think we'll wait to try that one at a later date, this is our first time and I'm keeping it simple. Just two more days and I'll let you all know how it went.
Eagle Creek IN			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have been with a few different couples and the lady is always the center of attention, no butts about it. This is made very clear before we do anything, especially when a single man is involved. I am the outsider, so what the couple wants is how we play, but the lady comes first.
Arcade NY			Username hidden (14 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	South Vegas: She is ALWAYS the center of attention. Definitely when the scenario is mfm, but also mf.
Chester NJ			Username hidden (241 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	uhm, not everyone likes DVP...... just saying. check first, ask her what she wants. remember, she is the center of attention in the MFM.
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (836 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To Thn and mj: I really like your comments Thn. To mj I suggest when you move to the other room or even to the hotel room that you have a sofa and a single chair facing the sofa. Let her sit next to the sm and the husband sit in the single chair. As the conversation continues, she can help move things along by sitting close to him or touching him lightly on the thigh with her hand. The husband can direct the conversation so it pertains to her and the single male sort of as if the husband is an observer and he is verbalizing what he likes to see. Of course dim lights maybe candle light and soft background music help. On the other hand, I sort of feel awkward when the husband starts romancing her because it can make me feel like I am the odd on out and then I'm not certain how I should proceed when I am in the position of that single male. Good luck and have fun. Finally, don't be shy in telling us afterwards how things went.
Chester NJ			Username hidden (241 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DVP Baby! They all love it!
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I suggest you talk one-on-one with they guy by phone before you meet. Make sure the single male knows and understands your (yours and your wife's ) limits and boundries for sexual activity, language to be used and how much strength he uses in handling her. I consider the lady to be the center of the universe in swinging and it's important that he understand what you want. Also, don't be afraid to simply call a time out and leave if things are not going the way you expect them to.
San Luis Obispo CA			Username hidden (1192 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for the advice thn, you really paint a picture.
Eagle Creek IN			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thn, that looks like you have been reading our book. Our pool table room makes for some close encounters and we move on from there.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	When we get together for an MFM I chat the guy up with some tip too. For example, you know what the likes and doesn't like, how she likes to be spoken to when you are playing, and how to help her feel comfortble about it during the time. When we've done it in the past I've let the guy know she doesn't like her hair pulled, doesn't like to be told she's a slut, and there can be that awkward moment when everyone starts looking at each other. For us, we first hang out in one room that is more lit to chat and get to know each other. Then we'd have another room that was a little more dimly lit. At some point either she or I start to move a little towards that room. If we are both in then the other person does too and the single guy gets the idea. Then I'll kiss her on the neck, move behind her, slowly caress her breasts and say, "hmm.. would you like to help me with this...?" Works like a charm. Once we start to undress her things pick up; groping, kissing, rubbing.. you know. Then I kiss her one more time and whisper in her ear that I want to see her have a really good time and to fuck him good. Her eyes light up.. she smiles.. and off we go with no looking back. Any tips you can give the guy about what she likes and equally importantly what she doesn't like can make the difference between a one time thing and someone you might see on a more regular basis. The guys are going to cum.. but you want her to too.. so there will be chance of a 2nd time. ;-) We like MFM's mostly--- but to avert an avalanche of emails from single guys, our schedule is really tough to work out and our getting out can be pretty spontaneous. Good luck ;-)
Bensalem PA			Username hidden (794 post)

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