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TOPIC: Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers

Created by: m_j_in_indy Original Starting post for this thread:
We found a great guy who we get along with and have a lot in common. In about two weeks (no way around it, vacation got in the way) we have a play date scheduled at his place (took some advice from the forums here and asked to play at his place the first time to make sure he isn't a cheater). I (M) am very secure and don't foresee any jealousy issues (we have played with other couples before), but am just wondering if any of you have any pointers for me to make this turn out great for my wife. I am very controlling during sex and she is very submissive. She thinks being forced into sex with two men is very hot and I get very turned on from her pleasure. This guy we have met has been in the lifestyle both as a couple and as a single for about a decade so I think he is a good first time choice. Any advice would be appreciated, I want to draw on the wisdom of the experienced. I'll also post in two weeks to let you all know how it went.

Created by: m_j_in_indy
Original Starting post for this thread:

We found a great guy who we get along with and have a lot in common. In about two weeks (no way around it, vacation got in the way) we have a play date scheduled at his place (took some advice from the forums here and asked to play at his place the first time to make sure he isn't a cheater). I (M) am very secure and don't foresee any jealousy issues (we have played with other couples before), but am just wondering if any of you have any pointers for me to make this turn out great for my wife. I am very controlling during sex and she is very submissive. She thinks being forced into sex with two men is very hot and I get very turned on from her pleasure. This guy we have met has been in the lifestyle both as a couple and as a single for about a decade so I think he is a good first time choice. Any advice would be appreciated, I want to draw on the wisdom of the experienced. I'll also post in two weeks to let you all know how it went.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Yeah, letting him know her preferences ahead of time helped out. We have played with him again and he does a good job of doing what she wants.
Eagle Creek IN			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	And if no one has yet, Welcome to the forums Foreplayguy
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The best ones do.
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have numerous experiences with couples. Very important you tell the other guy what her preferences are. What she likes and what she doesn't like. If he does not respect the "ground rules" then he is an idiot. Many couples ask me back because I respect her preferences and act like a gentleman. The extra guy is an invited guest and should act that way.
Dallas TX			Username hidden (5 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	LMAO @ DEFL, that will work too!
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Laying on your lap?
Middletown DE			Username hidden (466 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nice to see you posting again, I think I am going to go post in the Fantasy of the Day thread that I want to wake up tomorrow with a full head of BLOND hair! ;^D
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	our first time went smooth beacause my husband sat back and watched me touch, and then go down on the guy. hubby joined in a little later.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (20 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	congrats m_j_in, as mfm vets we have found this is a great way to play, glad your first one went well
Spring Branch TX			Username hidden (208 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	First do not be dominant and force her to do anything. I also can say sit back and let him and her start and then join in. maybe let them play alone together for a few minutes.
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