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User Details are only visible to members.	Thanks for all the input really. She has stopped with him and has told him he has to meet me and she wants never to do that to me again. I want her to have fun with whom ever she desires to see as long as it is safe for her and us, if I meet them or not, I fully trust in her. That is her time to enjoy alone and she knows I'll have my times too someday, if the right gal comes into our lives that is. We have had very long deep talks and I'm fine with it now really. No more anxiety for me. Again thanks for the input on this. No I'm no cock hold either, yes that's fine for those who enjoy that just not for us. I wouldn't mind watching as long as I'm able to join in when I want too if I'm there when it happens and if not I want her to come home with a huge smile.
Clermont FL			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I totally agree with mrs sav. And I also know my husband wouldn't stand by me with all that nonsense, nor would I want to make him worry like that. These lifestyle adventures are supposed to be fun and bring something to OUR relationship in a positive way. If it ever gets to the point that either of feels uncomfortable or isn't happy with how things are going then it's not worth it and becomes a challenge in the realtionship rather then an extra perk!
Davison MI			Username hidden (113 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	As usual, Mrs. Sav articulated my point far more eloquently than I.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"My bad, she is in control of when and where those two play and how...He is scared of me specially because he is bi-phobic BIG time! I dont really know why either just assuming which always is a bad thing. He is a small guy, very straight lace, extra vanilla type guy too and I'm as far from that as I can be. large framed Bi, tattooed biker..." No offense intended at all but I call BS to his "fears" and I also call BS to any wife who will play the "if you trust me card" under those circumstances . You have every right to meet the partners she plays with if that is what makes you comfortable. ANY hedging on her part is a warning sign and completely disrespectful to your relationship. One partner does not get to make the rules or decide how things are played out. I personally find it appalling that your wife, knowing full well you have concerns seems more self focused and single male focused than she is on your uncomfortableness and anxiety. It sounds to me this all about her having the ability to what she she likes when , with who and how she wants to. Frankly that ti me is a clear warning sign of trouble. Mrs Sav
Weaver AL			Username hidden (4445 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	sounds to me like OFP is a cuckold. Some people enjoy that sort of play, some don't. Certainly doesn't sound like you do, if it's got you tied up in knots of anxiety.
Modesto CA			Username hidden (133 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My bad, she is in control of when and where those two play and how...He is scared of me specially because he is bi-phobic BIG time! I dont really know why either just assuming which always is a bad thing. He is a small guy, very straight lace, extra vanilla type guy too and I'm as far from that as I can be. large framed Bi, tattooed biker...
Clermont FL			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	NAN, I dont make the rules, we do together. She truly trusts him, so I have to trust her with that too. I would like to meet them first but cant always do that with our life as it is right now either, so I go with it the best I can, which sometimes leads to that anxiety. I'm leaning towards just not knowing until afterwards that times she is playing alone which would stop that anxiety. Just feeling this all out as we go here. Thanks for the input...truly!
Clermont FL			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	IMHO if you want to meet the guy and "look him in the eye" then you should insist on it. Why do you allow the other guy to dictate the rules for you and YOUR wife?
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	After many months now we have found that I the male gets stressed out when I know she is playing alone from the anxiety of not truly knowing if she is safe or not. Not jealousy, just not feeling the honest trust of the others she is with I guess. One of her playmates doesn't even want to meet me. She has known him for over 20 yrs not sexually until the last couple months but trusts him fully. I cant say the same if I cant look him in the eyes! We are still trying though... I do want her to have that fun and be able to fully enjoy herself too. As for finding a female for us it's like finding a diamond in the ocean...but again we still forge ahead and wait to see if she ever shows up in our lives and I know it will be really good when we do too.
Clermont FL			Username hidden (52 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We to have a true open marriage and she has a couple of guys she sees off and on. But like many of the couple on here finding a female friend for him seems almost impossible. I wouldn't want her to stop because of that though. I really enjoy knowing that she is having fun. Like others have posted on here its not for everyone and the trust and communications have to be there for it to work.
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (466 post)

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