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Nic, read our post entirely. You're the one that is being misleading. Take a look a mangrovecpl. We're not the only ones that think porn is not real.

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biscuit, some would find posting a porn pic you found on the internet as your cover photo misleading. Since this is a site where people are on here to meet others, not just see hot pics, I would think you would want to represent YOU, not just post hot pics.

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I guess we do things differently to but we sure don't have a problem with intimacy. Because we enjoy the lifestyle and all it has to offer it has actually brought us closer together.

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That's cool, blue... I get that... I just don't see why that should need to involve the assumption that anyone who does things differently must have "intimacy problems".

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BTW Nick, the public picture of us is not real although we posed for it because it doesn't show anything about us; it's just porn and pornography is not real.

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I agree with sweettart and blue24199. Sex is fun; it’s a hobby and like any fun hobby it’s a vehicle to make friends. One doesn’t become friends with everyone in the hobby, but friends do gather and do things other than the interest that brought them together. We’ve been boating, kayaking, fishing, camping and horseback riding with our friends. We treasure our friendships and we’re also there to help when there is a need.

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Hey pervyduo sounds like they do the same thing we do but don't like to put a name on it which is fine if thats what they choose to do. We like to call it what it is.

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"We think that polys, swingers and lifestylers have intimacy problems and that’s why sex is at the top of their list."

That's a pretty judgmental assumption you have there. You should have that checked out to make sure it's not malignant.

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My wife and I do not have a problem with either of us playing with friends while the other is away. When we’re together; we like to share our lives with one another totally. We love our friends, but we prefer the best (each other). Because of our understanding, if one of our friend’s spouses is away, we don’t stop swinging with either of them. Once you’re a friend; you’re a friend; with or without your spouse. Our understanding extends to casual hookups when traveling alone (such as on business). Another exception we like making is when a couple we know wants to have a threesome (like a birthday present). We don’t consider ourselves in an open relationship, being swingers or lifestylers. The first two don’t seem to have the intimacy we desire for one another or with our friends. Swinging lifestyle…I don’t get it. When I owned horses that was a lifestyle: training, riding, buying, selling, health care, attending lessons and events, reading, maintaining tack, bush hogging, dragging the pasture, putting up bales of hay for the winter, feeding twice a day. I don’t think I want anything to do with anymore lifestyles….they’re just too consuming. Open relations are just too shallow for us. We can’t imagine spending extensive time with anyone else. We think that polys, swingers and lifestylers have intimacy problems and that’s why sex is at the top of their list. So many are “hit and run.” Sex is just another renewable/repeatable resource we enjoy with our friends just like dining, dancing, fishing, and boating. For us laughter trumps sex everytime. I guess we share a boat spaces with “sweetart” and “lacouple1989.”

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We have a male friend,that vists us a few time a year from Maine.He has been a friend to both of us for over 20 years.He is single and has a girlfriend in Maine.He has sex with my wife,when he comes to stay with us.Both when I am there and when I go to work..I came home many times and found them pound each other in bed..It all good.we have a open relationship.I rather have her have sex that I know about,then her doing it behind my back....

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