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For us it depends on the level of PDA and just how "public" we are and if it is a regular playmate or someone we just met. Although just met is sort of relative. Just met after 2 years of flirting is different then you sent me an email Monday and we met Wednesday.

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Adding a PDA column to my spreadsheet and marking "NO" for the previous poster.
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We have a policy of no pdas in vanilla places. We're both professionals and could see our regular vanilla friends when we're out, so.... We like to keep a low profile in public. :)
We do flirt, though. There's a lot that can be said in a glance, a flush to the cheeks, a sexy comment.... We all want to feel like the person/people we're meeting are attracted to us.
This is a great question to ask the couple before meeting them, as most will definitely have an opinion about the subject. When in doubt, it is best to be careful. We did meet one single guy who actually kissed me in a vanilla bar. Things did not progress for him...
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Hey Fred, we are new to this and have had only one play date. For me, I would say if you met us and we clicked, well then take it and run. I love feeling my wife in public and I would have no problem with that if things clicked.

If things didn't seem just right, well then we would most likely say so and go our separate ways.

For me as the male side, this is all about my wife having fun and that is the whole point to it for us.
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Really not sure where to post this, so I will start here. As a single male I was wondering what couples opinions who meet single males are on the female half of the couple showing public displays of affection to the single male the couple is meeting with in public. As a single male I would not want to cross the line, but at the same time I would not want a couple to think I'm not interested by my lack of participation. I know this subject will vary on opinions and personel rules the couple may have. So should I let the lady lead or take it up a notch?
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