NO SINGLE MEN!!! except not a rant: Swingers Discussion 2032761051

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NO SINGLE MEN!!! except not a rant: Swingers Discussion 2032761051

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TOPIC: NO SINGLE MEN!!! except (not a rant)

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User Details are only visible to members.	c&p I'm not complaining. I'm just curious about the rationale behind the statement. I've asked couples about this and I've never received a straight answer. Good question, if I was you the second question to any couple you ask would be how long have you been playing. My guess would be their answer would put them as newbies, or rokies, under 1 year. On this site the hide feature stops or starts unwanted SM attention or any unwanted attention for that matter. Us, me and the wifey aren't into SM play but have a few SM/SF playfriends that play as a couple. We socialize at times with both SM and SF but don't play. Our answer to your question is it takes time to work out the kinks of ones likes and dislikes and that takes trial and erra using site features.
Atlanta GA			Username hidden (2136 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"The single men we prefer to meet are a huge step above the typical single male on SLS." I think this alone weeds out a lot of wannabes. Oh and if they read the forums they are afraid of being eviscerated publicly. lol
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Our profile must be uninteresting to many single males. We don't discourage them or block them but we don't have an over flowing mailbox filled by them.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Even having "NO SINGLE MEN" (if she's interested she will contact you) hasn't always discouraged them from trying (i.e. sending emails and/or chat requests). Although we have noticed a lot fewer unsolicited contacts happen in SLS than another site we frequent. The issue is avoiding overfilled mail box.
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (834 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	That's the case for us, as well as a few other couples we know.
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with hrdnrdy88, that has also been my experience.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I would say and it has been my experience that your first point - they use it to discourage SMs from messaging them, so they can pick without being bothered....
Brick NJ			Username hidden (9703 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Most of the couples that I have played with and that make the contact with me have profiles that go out of the way of making the point of "NO SINGLE MALES". What every single one has told me is that when they decide from time to time that they want an extra guy for the lady they prefer to scan profiles and make inquiries themselves rather than have an open call and their inbox blow-up with requests from single males.
Michigan City IN			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've seen this in profiles and it's been discussed here in the forums ad nauseam. I'm not interested in discussing that, specifically. Instead, I'm interested in discussing something I've been experiencing more and more, and that is couples who explicitly say in their profile that they have no interest in single men, and then they contact me, a single male. Trust me, I'm not complaining. I'm just curious about the rationale behind the statement. I've asked couples about this and I've never received a straight answer. I have my suspicions: - they use it to discourage SMs from messaging them, so they can pick without being bothered - desires change over time - just want to try it once - (less likely, but possible) husband wrote that statement, but wife is sneaking around Any thoughts on this?
Fort Washington MD			Username hidden (40 post)

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