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Even having "NO SINGLE MEN" (if she's interested *she* will contact *you*) hasn't always discouraged them from trying (i.e. sending emails and/or chat requests). Although we have noticed a lot fewer unsolicited contacts happen in SLS than another site we frequent.

The issue is avoiding overfilled mail box.

Las Vegas NV
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That's the case for us, as well as a few other couples we know.

Toledo OH
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I agree with hrdnrdy88, that has also been my experience.

Youngstown OH
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Most of the couples that I have played with and that make the contact with me have profiles that go out of the way of making the point of "NO SINGLE MALES". What every single one has told me is that when they decide from time to time that they want an extra guy for the lady they prefer to scan profiles and make inquiries themselves rather than have an open call and their inbox blow-up with requests from single males.

Michigan City IN
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We've seen this in profiles and it's been discussed here in the forums ad nauseam. I'm not interested in discussing that, specifically. Instead, I'm interested in discussing something I've been experiencing more and more, and that is couples who explicitly say in their profile that they have no interest in single men, and then they contact me, a single male. Trust me, I'm not complaining. I'm just curious about the rationale behind the statement. I've asked couples about this and I've never received a straight answer. I have my suspicions:

- they use it to discourage SMs from messaging them, so they can pick without being bothered - desires change over time - just want to try it once - (less likely, but possible) husband wrote that statement, but wife is sneaking around

Any thoughts on this?

Fort Washington MD
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