NO SINGLE MEN!!! except not a rant: Swingers Discussion 2032761031

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TOPIC: NO SINGLE MEN!!! except (not a rant)

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User Details are only visible to members.	Oh, you're listed as a single woman but you're married? Whatever.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I usually read these forums, but rarely if ever post because there are so many smart @sses. I stumbled on this thread and was disappointed to see some of the comments. I'm not the most active swinger, but I meet a few SLS and non-SLS men and couples and Nmanno/C is one of the best guys I see. My husband is 50 and loves hanging out with him because he told me C is one of the few young men he's ever met that he can relate to. Age may be a quick way to judge, but it's also a lazy way. I did get a message from a 52/47 y/o couple signed by the husband that included him mentioning that he was concerned that I would see single men independent of my husband, despite my husband's encouragement. He's older than both of us, so I should probably take his advice and quit... I'm usually not this *itchy, but you really shouldn't mock people you don't know well... especially when they are right.
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User Details are only visible to members.	My post stands.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" My understanding is that communication between a couple in the lifestyle is one of the most critical things. I always make sure the couples I meet are constantly aware of plans, preferences, etc. so that everyone is on the same page. Hiding things is cancerous in the lifestyle. " ----- I believe your understanding to be very correct! ;) ... and thought so from your first post. It seemed clear to me that you were speaking from what couples you have had experiences with may have shared with you. Have fun tonight! ;)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I also want to thank all the folks who sent nice messages. They're appreciated, but by no means necessary. Even got a date out of this exchange from a self-proclaimed "no single men!" couple :)
Fort Washington MD			Username hidden (40 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	- I'm not sure why people think I came up with the idea of having the conversation about adding a male. I didn't come up with it. Couples I've spoken to (30, 40, and 50 somethings) tell me they regret not having that open conversation. I mentioned that right in my post. They said it was a sign of poor communication and distrust within their relationship. Like anything on these boards, you can take it or leave it. - They (TKO) said they are new to the lifestyle. I figured I would back up Rdy's post with some experiences I have heard about. I know Rdy has a wonderful figure, which automatically makes her right, but we were thinking along similar lines... and, of course, I'm wrong. I'll admit that is one thing I need to learn more about the married life: the woman is always right. But what about when you agree with the woman? - I made it clear I know there are many couples who simply aren't interested in single males. That's fine, neither am I. My opinion, and I hope you agree with this, is that shutting one person out of the decision making process is not fine. - I notice there is more focus on a two digit number than the paragraph following that number. Akron and FJ's tone implies they disagree with having the type of conversation I mentioned. I'd like to hear the rationale on that. My understanding is that communication between a couple in the lifestyle is one of the most critical things. I always make sure the couples I meet are constantly aware of plans, preferences, etc. so that everyone is on the same page. Hiding things is cancerous in the lifestyle. Maybe that type of thinking is just my 27 y/o immaturity and lack of understanding. - I thought I made it clear early on in this thread, but I'll be explicit. I'm not complaining about being a single male at all. I actually do pretty well. I just wanted to pass along a suggestion that may be helpful to a new couple. Now, I have to go get ready to do things that keep "the single, well single", as FJ says. A night out in DC and more with a busty little latina, a husband, and his swimmer-body blonde wife that I've been seeing for over two years. I may have to rethink this though after reading this thread. I may not know what I'm doing.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Now I know why I like you so much :)~
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Single men have cooties
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I just like to point out the ridiculous.
Avondale LA			Username hidden (4496 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ooops forgot~~It's Pee!
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