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User Details are only visible to members.	I think this forum is getting way off track. We have found it very hard to find ladies to join us in fact in the past 5 years it has never happened. We try to be respectful, kind and always willing to do a little extra to make her comfortable. We are at a lose ourselves what we can do.
Presque Isle WI			Username hidden (182 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Nic...you are absolutely correct There are many clubs who do not welcome single men, in our case we did the math. The number of couples and single ladies who enjoy single gentlemen, vs the number who don't. We then created a wrist band system to indicate which ladies would welcome the advances of the single gentlemen and which would not....and it all works out well for everyone
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I host house parties and never expect my guests, singles or couples to "lend a hand" to earn an invitation. Clubs generally cater to couples and restrict the number of single males in an effort to keep some balance so couples don't feel overwhelmed. If you are suggesting they limit the number of guys because single males are rude and obnoxious, you are mistaken. If that were the case, clubs would ban males altogether. Most clubs have some couple's only nights and some where they invite single males for couples who enjoy adding another guy. That is a business decision based on catering to the desires of their customers.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Toledo...Thank you, we have worked our asses off to become in most ways, the 1# club in the Chicago area, and part of that has been our stubborn insistence that indeed people of all backgrounds, sizes and ages can all party and enjoy each other I was referring to Nic's "disgusting people" comment and his attitude regarding the lifestyle in general. My dime a dozen comment simply referrers to the fact that I generally have more single guys who want in than I can accommodate, so when decisions have to me made on who gets in and who doesn't, comments like calling people disgusting, and disregarding the possibility manning up and offering a hand to get to the top of the list, would not help his case....That's all I'm saying
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hey nic married guys at clubs may be rude but so far we haven't run across that yet. Not to say that it doesn't happen but if that is the case then why are single (unescorted) guys not usually welcomed into most clubs?
Vicksburg MS			Username hidden (465 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Party, Based on your profile/certs, it seems as though you're quite the social butterfly. I appreciate the practice of open acceptance of all people, and the mentality that encourages the mantra "Can't we all just get along?" The part I'm just not getting is that the undertones in your posts seem to suggest otherwise. If you accept everyone for who they are, then you wouldn't tell nic that there are 150 just like him waiting to take his place. You would celebrate his unique self. In truth, there aren't 150 of any given person/people. You either accept everyone for the unique individuals that they are, or you generalize people into categories and then descriminate based upon internal criteria. Don't feel guilty about saying #2, most people fit into that group. ;)
Toledo OH			Username hidden (1045 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Butterball would give up his nuts if presented with the chance to boink a size 2 pillow princess, believe me! He's been insulting those that he is unable to attain from the moment he jiggled into the fora.
Colts Neck NJ			Username hidden (12234 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fair enough Nic, but bringing a covered dish to a pot luck (AWFUL metaphor I know...LOL) does have it's merits....for good or for bad, the lifestyle is still primarily a couple dominated lifestyle Believe it or not, I have more "coaching opportunities" with single ladies than single guys in terms of behavior, and it is many of them who have a sense of entitlement, and feel like "ask before touching" , "No means no" and "approach a person in a couple as a couple" does not apply to them. Single guys however, and I mean no disrespect by this, come with a unique set of issues, and as I said, come in greater numbers than I can sometimes accommodate, so short of picking names out of a hat, I have to use other criteria.
Elk Grove Village IL			Username hidden (2556 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Couples are also a dime a dozen and many clubs will tell you, married guys are the worst offenders of being boorish and rude. They have a sense of entitlement because they "brought something to the party", code for dangling their wife as bait in order to get laid. There are great single guys out here, there are great couples out here. We may define "great" differently but as long as we are meeting the type of people we each enjoy hanging out with, we are successful. You want to insult me for having self-confidence and not being one of the whiny complaining SM's, no problem. I will continue to meet and enjoy those who appreciate me and since there is a mutual Disinterest, we never have to cross paths. See, a win-win.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Fair enough...All I am saying is that a general comment like that is the reason single guys are sometimes frowned upon. That "Disgusting" women is some guys pride and joy and the love of his life, or in the case of a single lady, is EXACTLY the same lifestyle roll as you...words matter...just sayin
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