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hey nic married guys at clubs may be rude but so far we haven't run across that yet. Not to say that it doesn't happen but if that is the case then why are single (unescorted) guys not usually welcomed into most clubs?

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Party, Based on your profile/certs, it seems as though you're quite the social butterfly. I appreciate the practice of open acceptance of all people, and the mentality that encourages the mantra "Can't we all just get along?" The part I'm just not getting is that the undertones in your posts seem to suggest otherwise. If you accept everyone for who they are, then you wouldn't tell nic that there are 150 just like him waiting to take his place. You would celebrate his unique self. In truth, there aren't 150 of any given person/people. You either accept everyone for the unique individuals that they are, or you generalize people into categories and then descriminate based upon internal criteria. Don't feel guilty about saying #2, most people fit into that group. ;)

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Butterball would give up his nuts if presented with the chance to boink a size 2 pillow princess, believe me! He's been insulting those that he is unable to attain from the moment he jiggled into the fora.

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Fair enough Nic, but bringing a covered dish to a pot luck (AWFUL metaphor I know...LOL) does have it's merits....for good or for bad, the lifestyle is still primarily a couple dominated lifestyle

Believe it or not, I have more "coaching opportunities" with single ladies than single guys in terms of behavior, and it is many of them who have a sense of entitlement, and feel like "ask before touching" , "No means no" and "approach a person in a couple as a couple" does not apply to them.

Single guys however, and I mean no disrespect by this, come with a unique set of issues, and as I said, come in greater numbers than I can sometimes accommodate, so short of picking names out of a hat, I have to use other criteria.

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Couples are also a dime a dozen and many clubs will tell you, married guys are the worst offenders of being boorish and rude. They have a sense of entitlement because they "brought something to the party", code for dangling their wife as bait in order to get laid.

There are great single guys out here, there are great couples out here. We may define "great" differently but as long as we are meeting the type of people we each enjoy hanging out with, we are successful. You want to insult me for having self-confidence and not being one of the whiny complaining SM's, no problem. I will continue to meet and enjoy those who appreciate me and since there is a mutual Disinterest, we never have to cross paths. See, a win-win.

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Fair enough...All I am saying is that a general comment like that is the reason single guys are sometimes frowned upon. That "Disgusting" women is some guys pride and joy and the love of his life, or in the case of a single lady, is EXACTLY the same lifestyle roll as you...words matter...just sayin

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I didn't disparage smaller women, I disparaged dull witted and mindless pillow princesses, and they come all sizes

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"Maybe you prefer to only invite desperate single males who will do chores for you to gain favor enough to be invited to your club and there are plenty of them out there"

Quite the contrary Nic, desperate single males seldom if ever step up and volunteer to help out in return for the privilege of being allowed into a world where they are , pardon my candor, "a dime a dozen" Every guy has a dick, every guys says he is kind, considerate, respectful and all the other minimum qualifications for being a functional adult, and if there is room for them at a venue, that may get them in. If however single gentlemen slots are at a premium, you gotta do better than that. I'm prtty sure you have a high opinion of yourself nic, and that may be justified, but trust me, I can post ONE message on the club web site, and have 150 'Nics" begging to hand me 80 to 100 dollars on a few hours notice

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It was a general comment in response to your post.

"Give me an an average but cool, funny, sensual, witty size 14 over a mindless dull witted pillow princess size 2 Barbie face any day of the week "

You profess to welcome all shapes, sizes and colors but then disparage smaller women, calling them dull witted and mindless. Your generalization deserved one in response. What you find disgusting, I may find attractive and vice versa.

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Sed, I didn't invent the term. In fact, I find it rather absurd.

Unicorns are mythical. SFs are not.

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