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TOPIC: Mrs question for Women How hard is it really to find a woman for MFF
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We've been in many FMF, where even though both of us were bi, we weren't into each other, so each of us was focused on him/hubby. And as SB pointed out, being comfortable with each other allowed the encounter to be that much more intense.

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Why does a woman have to be bi to participate in a FMF?

Typically, a man doesn't have to be bi to participate in a MFM.

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hard very hard i have been looking an havent found i guess i will give up and maybe find a couple but was really just wanting a woman since i have a male friend already :( i just really wanna watch my man with another woman lol

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Frankly, I am happy to hear that it is extremely difficult to get women to participate in MFF. I've experienced it myself when I attempted to get another female to get together with me and a bf and he had no success either. I was able to make it happen once. A lot of single women either want the man or woman for herself. They are not big on sharing. Back in the day, I would never have shared my partner either. Another thing. A lot of the jerks who come on this site thinks its a free for all for pussy, etc. and won't even support the site by becoming a paid member and think the women are sluts. I had such an experience this week with one calling me a slut. Was I bothered? Not in the least. I blocked his dumb ass. Some of us act like this LS is the "norm." It's not!

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Nic,

One has to wonder, mental/physical midget has been harping on how wonderfully successful his club is. Why is he looking to freeload, if one is running a successful business, logic dictates that people get paid for their labor, no?

Rumson NJ
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I think this forum is getting way off track.

We have found it very hard to find ladies to join us in fact in the past 5 years it has never happened. We try to be respectful, kind and always willing to do a little extra to make her comfortable. We are at a lose ourselves what we can do.

Presque Isle WI
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Nic...you are absolutely correct There are many clubs who do not welcome single men, in our case we did the math. The number of couples and single ladies who enjoy single gentlemen, vs the number who don't. We then created a wrist band system to indicate which ladies would welcome the advances of the single gentlemen and which would not....and it all works out well for everyone

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I host house parties and never expect my guests, singles or couples to "lend a hand" to earn an invitation.

Clubs generally cater to couples and restrict the number of single males in an effort to keep some balance so couples don't feel overwhelmed. If you are suggesting they limit the number of guys because single males are rude and obnoxious, you are mistaken. If that were the case, clubs would ban males altogether. Most clubs have some couple's only nights and some where they invite single males for couples who enjoy adding another guy. That is a business decision based on catering to the desires of their customers.

Youngstown OH
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Toledo...Thank you, we have worked our asses off to become in most ways, the 1# club in the Chicago area, and part of that has been our stubborn insistence that indeed people of all backgrounds, sizes and ages can all party and enjoy each other I was referring to Nic's "disgusting people" comment and his attitude regarding the lifestyle in general. My dime a dozen comment simply referrers to the fact that I generally have more single guys who want in than I can accommodate, so when decisions have to me made on who gets in and who doesn't, comments like calling people disgusting, and disregarding the possibility manning up and offering a hand to get to the top of the list, would not help his case....That's all I'm saying

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hey nic married guys at clubs may be rude but so far we haven't run across that yet. Not to say that it doesn't happen but if that is the case then why are single (unescorted) guys not usually welcomed into most clubs?

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